Healing Loves Tears

Good morning ladies! We as women always put everyone and everything before ourselves. We tend to push our goals and agendas to the side because we don’t make time for ourselves. It’s good to help others, it’s naturally in us, but we HAVE to put ourselves first in life. We have to put OURSELVES back on OUR agenda. If not; then who will? If not today, when will we do it? On this day, review your goals and dreams and then revive your plan to reach them. You COUNT. You are IMPORTANT and so are the things you want to do. Put yourself at the top of your TO DO list! #TeamHLT

Today’s Motivational Moment…. “If I am not for myself, who will be for me? And if not now, when?" Author Rabbi Hillel

Good morning! YOU have the power and authority over how your day is going to go today. You have the choice to determine if you will be happy rather than mad, if you will be thankful rather than complain, if you will have regrets from yesterday or start over anew today….it is all up to you. I am going to choose to be positive rather than negative because I know no troubles last forever! What are you going to choose? #TeamHLT

Today’s Motivational Moment…. Each morning when I open my eyes I say to myself: I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn't arrived yet. I have just one day, today, and I'm going to be happy in it." Author Groucho Marx

Good morning. A smile, a word of encouragement, a hug, a helping hand, a shoulder to lean on….all of those small things make big differences in someone’s life. You never know what someone is going through. Behind that smile may be struggle. Give a stranger a compliment. Call someone you haven’t spoken to in a long time to see how they are doing. Call your best girlfriend today to tell her you appreciate her. Do something nice for someone today. It can make all the difference in the world! Have a wonderful day! #TeamHLT

Today’s Motivational Moment…”Act as if what you do makes a difference. It does." Author William James

Good morning! Have you ever said to yourself, “I’m over it, I’m letting it go”? Sometimes we say that ourselves over and over again but deep down, we don’t really mean it or believe it. The second we have the chance, we bring it up again and rehash the hurt and pain. Bury your hurt and pain in an unmarked grave so you can’t ever find it again. There is no need to know where it lies. Learn a lesson from your past relationship, forgive and move on. Open yourself up to the bigger and brighter future waiting for you!

Today’s Motivational Moment - “There's no point in burying a hatchet if you're going to put up a marker on the site.” -Unknown

Good morning! We all fall down, but nothing can keep us there. We have a strength and a fight inside of us that just won’t allow us to stay down. It’s ok to lay there for a second, but while you are taking that breath; regroup, recharge, replan and revive because you have no choice but to rise back up. Failure is not an option! TGIF ladies! Have a good weekend!

Today’s Motivational Moment…. If you have made mistakes, there is always another chance for you. You may have a fresh start any moment you choose, for this thing we call 'failure' is not the falling down, but the staying down." Author Mary Pickford

Good morning ladies! As we always say, there is a reason that we go through trials and tribulations in life. It is not in vain. It is not for nothing. So while you are going through your storm, focus on the when the sun will shine again, instead of the storm. It too will pass; you just have to hold on and learn your lesson from it. I can’t say it any better than Marilyn Monroe did so here is today’s MM. #TeamHLT

Today’s Motivational Moment…”I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together." Author Marilyn Monroe

Good morning! For everything, there is a season. There is a time to be born and a time to die. A time to plant seeds and a time to reap what you planted. A time to hurt and a time to heal. A time to build up and a time to break down. A time to embrace and a time to let go. A time to get and a time to lose. A time to keep and a time to cast away. A time to speak and a time to be silent and listen to your heart. Use your time wisely ladies. Learn from it. Grow from it. #TeamHLT

Today’s Motivational Moment…”There is a time for everything”. Author Thomas A. Edison

Good morning! We have all been hurt, offended, and betrayed at one time or another in our lives. We have all had things happen to us that weren’t fair and that we did not deserve. We have all been angry. What we cannot do is to hold on to that anger and bitterness. You have to let it go; more so for yourself than for the person who has hurt you. Like today’s MM says, that anger makes you smaller. But that forgiveness increases your territory! Reclaim your happiness today. You SO deserve it. And on top of that, let that person who hurt you see you shine! You knocked me down but you sure couldn’t keep me there! Have a good day ladies. #TeamHLT

Today’s Motivational Moment…”Anger makes you smaller, while forgiveness forces you to grow beyond what you were.” Cherie Carter-Scott

Good morning! Attitude is everything. Even though we don’t realize it, it has a big impact on the outcome of all things. In everything you do, have a positive attitude. Positivity, hope, optimism, expectations and faith will work wonders for you. Try it today! Have a wonderful day and TGIF! #TeamHLT

Today’s Motivational Moment…“Attitude to me is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than success, than what other people think, say or do. It is more important than appearance, gift, or skill. It will make or break a company...a church...a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day...I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you... we are in charge of our attitudes.” Author Charles Swindoll

Good morning! When you know who you are, what you stand for, what you will and will not accept, what your value and worth is and how important you are; it is easy to make decisions about your life. It is easy to decide who to share your time with because your time is valuable. It is easy to decide who is worthy enough to be with you because you know your worth. Make life easy….know exactly who you are so that others make no mistakes about it. “I am a woman of worth and you better recognize it!” Have a wonderful day ladies! #TeamHLT

Today’s Motivational Moment…” It's not hard to make decisions when you know what your values are. Author Roy Disney

Good morning! Somebody needs this reminder today. You may feel weak right now sister, but be reminded that you are SO strong. You may feel weary, but sister you have the strength in you to make it through. You might be feeling down, but know sister that you will rise to the top. It may seem dark, but sister the sun always rises in the morning! You may feel alone, but know that you have a sisterhood of women surrounding you over 1200 strong. Whatever you are going through now is not greater than what is in you! You can and will overcome! I KNOW you will! #TeamHLT

Today’s Motivational Moment...”You have within you right now, everything you need to deal with whatever the world can throw at you”. Author Brian Tracy

Tuesday Affirmation-I am more than a conqueror and I will do and be everything I dream of!

Good morning! I want to reach women all over the world who we can support during their heartbreak. I want to change lives. But wanting something is just not enough. Like today’s MM says, you have to be HUNGRY for it! Today I revive my hunger! Today I am going to recharge my WANT and change it to HAVE TO HAVE IT! I SO believe in HLT and I SO believe we can change lives! What is your WANT today? Change it to HUNGER and you WILL reach your goal. I know I am going to reach mine or die trying! No obstacle is too big for me! I was built to overcome obstacles! I am MORE than a conqueror! Have a wonderful day! #TeamHLT

Today’s Motivational Moment…”Wanting something is not enough. You must hunger for it. Your motivation must be absolutely compelling in order to overcome the obstacles that will invariably come your way.” Author Les Brown

Good morning! As I always say we have to go through trials and tribulations to grow and become the person we are meant to be. You had to go through that heartbreak to know you are strong enough to overcome pain. You had to go through the death of a loved one to know that you can still keep moving even after losing someone and also to learn to value those you love while you can. You had to go through the struggle of paying your bills when you didn’t think you could to know that you can make it happen when you have to! It just somehow works out. You had to be in that breakup to know that you are OK with being alone. You just have to go through some things to become the woman you are. All of these things and whatever else you encounter in life are what brings you through the fire and has you coming out like pure gold! That is what you are PURE GOLD that had to go through the fire first. Keep your head up and look towards the outcome of your trial; not the current circumstance. I CAN AND WILL GET THROUGH THIS. I AM BUILT FOR THIS BECAUSE I WAS NOT BUILT TO BREAK. I WILL COME OUT BETTER, WISER, STRONGER. I WILL COME OUT AS PURE GOLD! #TeamHLT

Today’s Motivational Moment…”The gem cannot be polished without friction, nor man perfected without trials.” Chinese Proverb

Ladies, there’s a point where you stop dealing and start healing. You just have to get there….have a good evening and weekend and TGIF!!! #TeamHLT

Good morning! Today, tell the people you love that you love them. Tell the people that you are thankful for just that; I am thankful for you! Sometimes we neglect to tell the people in our lives how we truly feel about them until it’s too late. As my grandmother always said “Give me my flowers while I yet live so I can see the beauty that they bring”. With that being said; I want to tell the women in my life that I love you and I am so very thankful for each of you! To the women who support Healing Loves Tears…thank you so much! It means more to us than you know. Your thoughts, advice and encouragement really and truly help the women who reach out to us! To my #TeamHLT (my 2 sisters/bffs)….THANK YOU and I LOVE YOU! We WILL change lives! To everyone reading this today….I give you your flowers!

Today’s Motivational Moment….”Silent gratitude isn't much use to anyone." Author Gladys Berthe-Stern

Thursday Affirmation: If they don’t respect, appreciate and value me, then they don’t deserve me.

Good morning! I saw this post and loved it so I’m sharing it with you ladies. LOVE is a powerful thing. It heals, it restores, it changes lives, it is kind, it is caring, it is compassionate, it does not envy and it does not hurt. Love is everything. On this day, let everything you do, think and say to others be done with love. Also, on this day and every day, let everything you do, think and see in yourself be done with the utmost love. YOU are love! Have a wonderful day ladies! And Thank You Lynn Bowen for the words of wisdom! #TeamHLT

Today’s Motivational Moment….”Everyone says love hurts, but that is not true. Loneliness hurts. Rejection hurts. Losing someone hurts. Envy hurts. Everyone gets these things confused with love. But in reality love is the only thing in this world that covers up all the pain and makes someone feel wonderful again.” Posted by Lynn Bowen

Tuesday Affirmation – I won’t cry over the past, it has gone. I won’t stress about the future, it hasn’t arrived. I will live in the present and make it beautiful.

Good morning! TGIF!!! Whether we have been hurt in a relationship or if we have hurt someone else, admitting your wrongs is probably the best thing you can do for the situation. Sometimes that’s all you need to hear to start the healing process….”I’m sorry, I was wrong”. So if you are going through a tough time, look within yourself, identify if you contributed to any hurt or hard feelings, be honest, admit it and move forward.

Today’s Motivational Moment – One of the hardest things in this world is to admit you are wrong. And nothing is more helpful in resolving a situation than admitting it. - Unknown