I am an over the top girly-girl who acts 1st & thinks 2nd. This is my life. The good, the bad, the silly and the mess. I very rarely lead with logic, which means that I let my emotions get the better of me a LOT! Love me/hate me/leave me, I will not change. I may apologize, but I will NOT change. I live with Lupus, Fibro, seizures, and struggle with infertility. I've learned how messy happiness can be...and I love it!



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10/02/11
12:03 am Monique Millender
October is Lupus Awareness Month! Visit the website to learn facts about Lupus. And check out the blog to get an inside look at life with the Grape Ape! (That's what I call Lupus)
09/24/11
8:45 am Tooth Maniac
You have a nice blog. i have Voted & followed you.
cool blog
09/28/11 9:43 pm Monique Millender
Thank you so much!
09/10/11
1:23 am Rebecca
Very nice blog! Thanks for sharing.
09/28/11 9:43 pm Monique Millender
Thank you!
08/20/11
7:46 pm Mark McDougall
lovely blog :D
08/21/11 12:10 am Monique Millender
Thank you!!! I am on my way to check your's out!
08/19/11
9:13 pm Monique Millender
Hey guys.
Just wanted to let everyone know that the site has completely moved over. http://amessyhappiness.com is a full website
you can now find the blog at
http://blog.amessyhappiness.com
If you followed by email before, you'll need to re-subscribe. Thanks!
08/16/11
4:26 pm Monique Millender
Ok guys, I am back!!! And with big news!!!
aMessy Happiness is now a FULL website!!! Including blog!!! So, be sure to go & check it out. Let me know what you think:
http://amessyhappiness.com
http://blog.amessyhappiness.com
08/09/11
3:08 pm Monique Millender
Thank you all so much for the wonderful comments, votes, & reviews of the blog. I appreciate each and every one of them!
*glitter hugs*
08/08/11
12:41 pm Monique Millender
Just wanted to remind everyone that if you see a double follow from me on Google Friend Connect it's ok. It's not a hack! I am moving aMessy Happiness to a full website on Wednesday & I'm trying to make sure that I don't lose someone that I am following when the current Google profile isn't used anymore.
08/04/11
12:08 pm Poonam Aerosoft
I would love for you to follow my blog using Google Friend.
Thank you for the prayers & well wishes. They mean a lot.
2:29 pm Monique Millender
I will head that way & check it out.
07/31/11
1:46 pm Jeannie Walker
Absolutely love your blog! It was delightful visiting it again.
Blessings my dear friend. Jeannie Walker
08/02/11 10:20 am Monique Millender
Thank you so much! I appreciate that. I enjoyed it as well. As soon as the electrician gets out here to fix the a/c, I'll be online more often to chat.
07/29/11
11:54 am Monique Millender
Ok guys, I am back & playing catch up. Thank you all for the thoughts, comments, emails, follows & votes!
07/28/11
8:31 am Kim Realubit
Your talking to your plants reminds me of kids having imaginary friends. Yes, I've read somewhere that if you long for a healthier and
happier life,go and nurture plants. Everyday you get to whisper to them and babysit them as if they were humans. And mind you, these plants
really do listen and if you tell them to grow taller and sprout next time,they'll materialize just like what you've told them.
Plants, like animals and humans, need constant loving and caring.After all, they were made by God for us to admire and adopt.
07/29/11 11:53 am Monique Millender
I agree!
07/25/11
4:02 am SuzyQ
Love your inspiration in 3 words. Voted for you and following you.
07/29/11 11:52 am Monique Millender
Thank you very much! That's one of my favorites too.