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Bibabird

Bibabird

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Throughout the years, I have come to realize that I very much enjoy talking with people from all over the world. I enjoy sharing their joys, their fears, their worries. In summary, I love people. Therefore I though that the best way to really get to do what I like is to start my own website where people can freely come and post blogs about what is happening in their lives and concerns they may have. I will gladly give you feedback about your situation.
I would like this website to be a place where we SHARE. We can share our good and bad moments together. I know in time things can get tough and we feel lonely. We have nowhere to turn and depression takes over. Instead of letting that happen, you can turn to this website and talk to genuine people and maybe their inspirations or suggestions will be like relief. I would like the people who join this site to be genuine.
Soon I plan to start a radio where people can dial in and talk to me directly and express their feelings, good or bad.

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Bibabird ∙ 29 Sep, 11

Many papers are now reporting about the legend’s death. I was very moved by many of the discussions about Michael Jackson’s death and they made me think about life and death. I wonder if in our reality we have not forgotten the meaning of the word reality. I sure do hope that they find who is responsible for his death and that the person will get the proper punishment. While this is my wish, it will not bring him back. We lost a legend, which has shaken many of our lives and we will continue to listen to his music for a very long time.

I believe in the past, people embrace death because they believed that after life come death. Today we fear death even tough it is an intimate part of life cycle. Does it mean that we have forgotten about the meaning of life? I believe when the time to go to the other world come, we must go no matter how careful we are and it is no one’s fault; it is just that the time has come.

I would like to emphasize that life is beautiful no matter how hard we think it is, it is just a matter of how we look at it. No matter how rich or poor we are, or pretty or ugly depending where we look we will always find better and worse. We should just be happy with who we are and try to better what we can. I used to envy the rich and realized that if I am not there, it just was not meant to be. I have enough to live and give, a loving family and why do I keep complaining. It is almost as if it was becoming a habit of mine to complain about everything. Now I realize that I was all wrong because I should rather enjoy.

Bibabird ∙ 3 Apr, 11

State of confusion

I found myself lately asking myself what is my purpose in life? I feel like I am getting to this routine of work, home, and there is no innner satisfaction from my day to day life anymore. Gone the time when i freshly graduated and was eager to work and really motivated to accomplish something. It seems that the passion I had for science is gone and I am now looking to find really what gets me excited. I feel like the nice pay check and the easy going atmosphere at work is no longer what I want. it is almost as if you have the impression that there is a path for you and you have not yet found it. Does anyone feel the same?

Bibabird ∙ 26 Mar, 11

few words on life

Live your life to the fullest..
Hope you made someone laugh or smile today, because that’s where it all start..
In life, you need to love people and respect them.
Ideally you want to care (love) everyone, even the ones that do not care.
Never look down at someone who is not as successful as you,
Because you do not know what tomorrow will bring
Treat your peer, as you would like to be treated
Be ready to give a hand, to whoever needs it.
These are my happiness secret..
And before all, keep on dreaming.. And remember, LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL

Bibabird ∙ 26 Mar, 11

Just a some thoughts

Start looking at life differently and you will see that life is beautiful..
Do the things you care about.. If you care about it do it.. Don't do things that you do not believe in just because you want to fit in

My dreams are my way of living, it allows me to keep a positive attitude.. Believing in my dreams is believing in ME..Everything is possible
Keep dreaming! Success is only around the corner, and before you know it you will be there...
Always keep your hopes high. Do not let anyone kill your hopes. Believe in yourself and do not let anyone tell you differently.

Bibabird ∙ 26 Mar, 11

A life full of sadness
Current mood:sad

I woke up sad again today. Sometimes I wonder why I cannot find peace inside. As if something is bothering me deep inside and I cannot find solution to it.

As a kid, I used to believe that when I grow older, things would be different better. I used to believe that one couldn’t be mistreated all their lives. A few years ago, I used to think. ”Now I have made it out my misery and my sadness will vanish”. Then why do I still feel at time this deep feeling of sadness, as if my life is still not how it should be. I should be thankful where I am at but still this feeling that there is a big gap in many aspects of my life. Maybe it is time to get out of my comfort zone and do the things that I care about instead of just sitting in an office all day for the paycheck. When I had nothing I thought once I am done and start making big money, I would be happy. But I think the problem and the reason I was sad was not the money, it is the lack of care and love around me. And still with the job, the gap is still there. The feeling that all my life, I have met people, but never made great friends. The feeling of loneliness, even when I am not alone. The feeling of deep sadness when I wake up and the feeling that life is going by and I still have not made a point to do the things I really care about.

As for love, I think I was and still am a silly dreamer. There was a time, I was really in love with my partner, but it has long gone for many reasons. Or maybe I thought of the feeling as being love. Now the one regret I have is to have to go online, to write a journal, to share my story because I really have no one to turn to.

I have met many people, and have helped many because I thought they were friends. I came to the realization that it is very difficult to make true friends. There are those, who are just there to hang out and then when something good happens to you, they want to spoil it. There are those who are there, and the moment they can take advantage of you they jump onto it. And there are those who want nothing, just the joy of seeing you happy and those are rare, I have yet to met one of the last class.

Steveboss ∙ 23 Mar, 11

HI! Welcome to Bloggers and nice to meet you. Thanks for the follow.

Odliam ∙ 23 Mar, 11

Hello Bibabird!

Nice to meet you!!

Welcome to Bloggers, thank you for following my blog!

Bibabird ∙ 23 Mar, 11

my thoughts

Is this a dream or reality? I woke up full of joy. A bright smile was illuminating my face. Around me people thought I had a glow. All looked at me as if I was reborn. All day long I fell as if I was embracing the sky. All I could see was blue. That felling made me feel great. For a moment I felt lost, as if I was swimming in the blue sea. I found myself, lost in the middle of nowhere. Then I realize that this was all imagination, I was dreaming that I was looking in your deep blue eyes.

At night, I spent long hours observing the sunset. The sky was so beautiful, colorful. I could see all the colors of the rainbow. This reminded me of your eyes and how their colors changed at the different times of the day. Again for hours I sat down and got lost in our long gone memories. Those memories of you, that follows me everywhere. At time I wish they were long gone, then I wouldn’t find myself daydreaming and drowning in the deep blue sea. But most of the time, I feel happy those memories are lasting. Because the remembrance of you makes me realize how much appreciation I have for you. Also it gives me time, to sit quiet and away from the crowd and think, while I admire the beauty of nature. It reminds me that I need to take a break at times, and just enjoy the moment. It reminds me that life is short and I should appreciate every moment of it.

Bibabird ∙ 23 Mar, 11

Travel to Mallorca.. What a great trip

I found myself walking along the beach, lost in my dreams. The water color changes at various time of the day, sometimes bluish, sometimes greenish, and all very fascinating. It felt peaceful, as if I landed in another world for these few minutes, maybe few hours. I sat on the seashore, just staring at the sea, the sky and the horizon. Late afternoon, as I look down the horizon, I noticed the sea now greenish, was in perfect harmony with the rainbow colors of the sky. I sat there, like a little kid, seeing its first sunset, transported into this new world of beauty. At night, the streets of Palma took me away from the afternoon’s quietness. People, full of life, were dancing in colorful clothing on patios and terraces. The music is so vibrant that you want to join the joyful ambiance. The mixture of smells from the delicious restaurants will definitely challenge you in many ways, as you will desire to taste some. I forgot my shyness and danced transported by the beats. I then went to a remote area, a little beach behind a high hill. I climbed the hill and was astonished by the scenery. There, the water does not get deep for a mile or so. I walked about ¾ of a mile, in water fully transparent; around me I could only see the blue water, the blue sky and felt that I was lost again, just enjoying all the beauty nature has to offer.

Bibabird ∙ 23 Mar, 11

Some thoughts

I have been in such pain for a long time; I have lost my ability to sleep for now some time. I wake up at night, trying to remember the reason of my awakening. I found myself awake and thinking of how life was, is or will be.

I again fall asleep, but for a time even shorter. I look at the watch and realize that I fell asleep only an hour and half ago. No one can help me, because the pain has found home, deep inside of my heart. Some call it a disease, which is hard to cure. This pain sometimes can destroy you, and it keeps eating you at night when you are just about to sleep. It is troublesome all night and you can never find sleep before midnight.

Some say it is not a disease, but still it makes you happy at times and cry at times. When it reaches your heart, it is to leave wounds, which takes long to heel. After having made you suffer for so long, these mysterious feelings represent what we all dream about. In many cases, all these wounds and feelings we have, are the fruit of our imaginations. Sometimes they are the results of fear because we always have the desire of knowing if our present happiness will forever last.

Without it we would be nothing and we would not be able to have feelings, and we would not be able to find true happiness. But it is true there is nothing more beautiful than true love, true love today, tomorrow and forever.

Bibabird ∙ 23 Mar, 11

How is your life? Elastic or plastic?

I discovered the meaning a short time ago. I knew the word since I was a kid. We all use words, sometime without thinking of them, without knowing the beauty and treasure behind them.

All life long, we run like crazy. We dream and have fantastic hopes, exotic desires, simplistic philosophy and sometimes unrealistic expectations. The fuel that drives us is not always the best. We work on getting energized, looking for the perfect fuel. Trying to reach perfection, is the fuel that drives us, I believe. But all the waste makes our lives platonic, and very platonic, somehow plastic.

We try to avoid these unexciting moments of our life, by switching from plastic to elastic. We make ourselves flexible to adapt to society. Then comes the breakdown, because we do not realize that elasticity does not imply infinite flexibility. As we become more flexible, we tend to be more vulnerable, any further stress may led to failure and in many cases a complete breakdown. I would suggest maintaining a plastic life, and the tears in moments of sadness are what increase our plasticity, meaning our ability to sustain stress continuously, without fatigue failure. I recommend plasticity versus flexibility because in the first case you keep your strength.

Also you need to keep in mind that in period where your stress level is high, you have uncontrollable desires, unrealistic expectations and then plastic is what saves you. The elasticity is just there to help you for a short time.

Enjoy your plastic life.

Bibabird ∙ 23 Mar, 11

About attraction
Well attraction is an interesting concept because it is most of the time the first thing we think of before approaching someone. But I would rather go with someone I am not attracted too but with a good heart. This is simply because I believe I want to marry only once in my life, if I do one day. And if you look at marriage, at the end of the day you end up with the person mind. What I mean is that today we may go for someone because he is attractive... but in 15 years who knows how he will turn.. so if I go with someone because I am attracted to him but his mind is not so much what I want then a few years after we get married, we both will change due to aging. So what is left when the attraction is gone? On the other end if you are with someone with a beautiful mind, it stays there. I believe all relationship requires work simply because a long term relationship is full of obstacles and its our abilities to pass these obstacles that make the relationship last. I am willing to work on the relationship but if it requires too much work or sacrifice on one of the two sides, then it's not an healthy relationship. have you ever met people you find very ugly at the first meeting and as you get to know them you start really enjoying them. And as you get to enjoy them their outlook does not bother you any more?

Bibabird ∙ 20 Mar, 11

· Is there anything like romantic love?
I believe true love does exist. But romance is just a game that two people play. It's the fruit of our imagination, because we want to make things look sweater. Two people can act very romantic with no true love. Also the idea of romance is very different from one person to the other. I have known couples that have lived very good romance, but there were no pure or sincere feelings between them. To me, romance is a game, an illusion that we want to live. But it is very different from true love, because True love comes from within and does not need to be express. You just feel it.

I do not believe in the idea that everyone has one soul mate. The idea of a unique soulmate comes from the idealization of love and marriage that we get from various sources of information (books, TV...). I do not believe that in this world somewhere, there is one man that is there for me. I think I can choose among many and the choice is restricted or broaden by my level of understanding, sacrifice and forgiveness toward somebody else’s weaknesses. Which now brings me to the fact that many people believe in finding that good man they are one day going to marry. But we need to keep in mind, that marriage is not only a reunion of two persons but also a promise that we make to God. It's a contract between each of the individual getting married and God.

Bibabird ∙ 20 Mar, 11

Real meaning of these three words: I LOVE YOU

people say love and hate are so close.. is that true?
Also how do you make the difference between love and temptation..

Bibabird ∙ 23 Mar, 11

Well I do not know if feeling is the right word. What I am trying to say is that true love does not necessarily involve romance or sweat words etc. What I am saying is that true love shows in how we behave in our everyday life. Have you ever live a kind of relationship where both of you have very deep feelings for each other... And the person care so much about you that you do not need to say anything.. it's just there.. Just seeing that person makes you just smile.. feel happy... I don't know how to explain this.. I don't think true love is about romance.. It's like sometimes people will tell you.. how come he does not take you out? buy you flowers? sit down with you and enjoy candle dinner? but at the end of the day that's not what matters.. Maybe he is not doing all these romantic things.. but he is simple.. does not need candles to enjoy you..does not need romance.. he just enjoy you...when he comes and visit.. see something wrong around your house.. he doesn't say much.. he will just go and fix it.. little things that really touch you so much..
well I should stop here..

Bibabird ∙ 20 Mar, 11

· Do you consider online chatting, especially when it get personal, as cheating?
Here is my opinion on that:
It depends on how far you go online. If you just discuss general issues then it's not.. If it gets too deep, and you start being on the comp every time you are free.. then it is..
How would you guys/girls react if you found out that when you're not around your woman/man spend his/her entire time online chatting and having fun?

Especially, deep inside most of us know it's wrong.. How many of you will tell their partners: "Hey look I was online today. You want to have a look at what I discuss about, with that guy/girl today?

And most of the time, when people chat online at a personal level, they don't want their partner to know.. If it was right then why would anyone hide it?

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