Mache

A few months ago I was talking to a co worker who is married and has a few kids and asked if I would ever go down that road. I laughed and told him who me; ya right my dog ties me down enough. I said to him I am never going to get married or at least anytime soon.

My reason behind that was there is always something better out there, to many things to experience to much life to live; why all of a sudden would you want to tie yourself down in your twenties. Or why would you need to put it on paper, you could just live with that one person no need to get married. I use to have a backup all the time when one relationship didnt work I would have someone else or was always the social girl that partied and lived the single life and all it had to offer.

But that all changed, my life changed; I met a guy last summer who is a Marine stationed in Japan. I was in a relationship as was he and we talked. One thing you have to realize when your thousands of miles away from your mother, sister father and all your friends is that its very hard. You miss Birthdays, Christmas's and family gatherings, so when you meet someone that is there for you to just be able to talk to, you get close. All I did was listen to his day, it could have been Gf troubles, something that happened on base with a family or just how much he missed his family and it meant alot that I was there to just listen to what he had to say.

People say that you truly never know someone you have never met or have only met for a brief amount of time. They say " how can you know someone by just talking on the phone or an email here or there?" Dont get me wrong, there are some; lets just say interesting people out there, but you need to have faith and take a chance on things. I think you get to know someone more being so far away and just friends. He is the type of guy that if I was having Bf problems I would turn to and get his adivce. I tell him I need him and no matter what time of day it is in Japan or how busy he is, when he gets a second to spare he calls and asks whats wrong and listens to what I have to say. Now someone that calls from 6000 miles away, well lets just say that's a man that truly cares and one not to let go.

I have him, over months of talking and being there for each other we realized we fell for one another. I never expected to be where I am today, in love with the best man ever whom I could never imagine being without. Being with a Marine I know this path isnt easy, I am willing to work through the hardships to be with the man I love.

Next Spring I am going to marry that man in Texas, the Marine who loves his family, friends and of course me. The Marine that leaves all he loves behind to fight for his country, and proudly stands next to his fellow Marines. I will say that distance is never easy, but if you love someone enough to wait for them and be faithful to them it will work out. It takes both sides to make it work and I think it was worth the wait. I found someone 6000 miles away and we found a way to get to each other. Miles are just miles, if you have faith and determination love will find its way.

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Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away
that they were meant to be there,
to serve some sort of purpose
teach you a lesson,
or to help you figure out who you are
or who you want to become.
You never know who these people may be
(possibly your roommate, neighbor, coworker, long lost friend, lover,
or even a complete stranger),
but when you lock eyes with them,
you know at that very moment they will affect your life
in some good or bad way.

And sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible,
painful,
and unfair at first,
but in reflection you find
that without overcoming those obstacles
you would have never realized
your potential, strength, will power, or heart.

Everything happens for a reason.
Nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck.

Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness, and sheer stupidity
all occur to test the limits of your soul.

Without these small tests, whatever they may be,
life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere.
It would be safe and comfortable,
but dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet who affect your life,
and the success and downfalls you experience,
help to create who you are and who you become.
Even the bad experiences can be learned from.
In fact,
they are probably the most poignant and important ones.

If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart,
forgive them,
for they have helped you learn about trust
and the importance of being cautious
when you open your heart.

If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally,
not only because they love you,
but because in anyway, they are teaching you
to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.

Make every day count.

Appreciate every moment
and
take from those moments everything that you possibly can
for you may never be able to experience it again.

Talk to people that you have never talked to before,
and actually listen.

Let yourself fall in love,
break free,
and set your sights high.

Hold your head up because you have every right to.

Tell yourself you are a great individual
and believe in yourself,
for if you don't believe in yourself,
it will be hard for others to believe in you.

You can make of your life anything you wish.

Create your own life and then go out and live it with absolutely no regrets.

Most importantly,
"If you LOVE someone tell him or her,
because you never know what tomorrow may have in store."

learn and cheerful life living.

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Hello Mache.

Hi Mache! Welcome to bloggers! Looking forward to visiting your blog. When will it be available? :)

neat. thanks for sharing some of your work. :)) it's pretty good. :D

Thank you so much Mache for your friendship. You have received my vote.
I am looking forward to view your blog as well. Have a great day.

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Hello Mache

I enjoyed your visit and participation.

Thank you.

hi there! (where's your blog??) --anyway, if you got time, try visiting my blog. :D

happy blogging. enjoy! :D

the political issue in Nigeria have become a thing of struggle for the past fifty years,by October 1 2010, Nigeria will be celebrating their independent day and they are yet not in the position of a fifty year old man can achieve.imagine a country with everything crude oil,rubbers all kind of mineral resources. today,am writing this blog let the world know that Nigeria should have been a country where everybody will like to visit,talk about the kidnapping in aba, majority at the eastern of NIGERIA.how can this end no one can tell,a new child whose born today is also a criminal either by receiving bribery or stealing oh my God! i hope my blog wwill able to tell a little about my feelings,