Teena Kapoor ∙ 27 weeks ago
Change….what is change…why and how does it affect our lives?
Well if a change is positive , we happily accept it….but any change
that challenges our ability to accept things, definitely disturbs us.
Off course, there are a few negative and sudden changes which one can accept only with the passage of time…like losing someone very close…but actually, when we say that somebody has changed…we are infact taunting that person….this is a complain.
Why do we expect the same kind of behaviour from
others every time we see them….why don’t we accept that even we
have our mood swings which others see and accept sometimes.
Today,I want to share my perception of ‘change’….
Well I see ‘change’ as a law of nature…
1-Any one who is born…will mature, grow old and leave some day.
2-One season changes to another…it is actually not dying..it is passing its legacy to the other in a way that people get some relief from
the snow and step into something that can be called a ‘spring’.
3-A seed that is sown is ought to turn into a seedling, give way to a
bud with flower and then fruit…..no one can eat it before it ripes.
When we so happily accept anything that is related to nature,
Why do we get upset with something related to human nature.
Well we all like to be treated well by others, but it is good if sometimes, that ‘Goody’ treatment is missing, it is for us to realize its worth.
Just as a plant goes through different stages , a relationship too
has to pass through various testimonials . If it will not change, how
will it grow…
Though time teaches us many lessons, it is obviously better if we prepare ourselves to welcome changes…see them as a part of the cycle…so that the relationship never dies and the legacy continues….!!