― Amaze Your Lover - 16 Romantic Ideas To Keep Them Happy ∙ Some people have a natural ability to romance the oppposite sex and others seem like they don't even know what it means. However, everyone should know how to make their partner's heart melt because it's one of the finest acts of seduction. ∙ For Your Wife/Girlfriend: ∙ 1. Kidnap her for a surprise picnic. Plan your rendevous for the weekend or when you both have a free day. Make sure she doesn't have any plans. [...].