― I look at my family with loving eyes, like all Moms. I set boundaries for my sanity and so they learn what is acceptable behavior and unacceptable behavior. With five children, maintaining boundaries became my full time job. It became consuming. I had to constantly check and double check every single rule established. Then the "kid factor" kicks in where they try and ride the coat tails of their brother or sister to get away with a rule or just plain fudge on a rule to get what [...].