― Well many of you know my dating history; men, women, break ups, cut buddies, and one night stands. After going on a few dates, being stood up, being ignored, and being lied to, I've decided to back away from trying to find that perfect mate. Sometimes when you search and search and search, you often look too hard and you frustrate yourself. ∙ I am utterly frustrated. I'm tired of being let down, told that I'm too feminine, that I'm too out there. I'm tired of just being asked for [...].