― Good night loves! I was talking to one of my friends tonight and she was telling me how much she has been going through and how much it hurts her. I was able to relate to everything she was saying because I have gone through it before. My sisterly instinct was to uplift her. And in doing so it brought back alot of the hurt I have gone through. But I did not dwell on the pain because I know that it would have left me in a negative frame of mind. ∙ In this life you just cannot allow [...].