― My first Friday Letters post. It seemed appropriate considering I've been MIA all week but I'm back. Stressed and losing hair but back. ∙ Dear Husband: Happy Birthday and you're welcome. It wasn't easy planning a surprise party, inviting all of our friends, and keeping it from your for six weeks. I'm sorry I lied about our fancy dinner reservation, maybe you should keep those plans in mind for my birthday (hint hint).Dear Richmond: You are the dirtiest city next to Philadelphia. I'm glad [...].