― And not the dirty fun kind either... ∙ Have you ever noticed that when you're in a relationship the second you step forward the other person steps back? And when the other person steps forward, you step back. It's a waltz of love that torments the heart but yet hardly avoidable. ∙ The dance was created by the infamous notion... "you want what you can't have". It's all about the challenge. In the beginning of a relationship, and unfortunately throughout a large portion of it, [...].