― As a mom with who has a 12 year old son, my heart aches for Tameka Raymond's loss. ∙ In my own way I'm sending light and love to her and her family. ∙ When I heard the news of Kile being brain dead it was a few minutes after my son asked me to go outside and ride his bike. I couldn't help but feel the fear come over me wanting to call him back inside the house where he would be "safe". He wanted to go out and ride his bike, that's all. He wanted to go out and play and have a [...].