― viaNow that bridesmaid season is over this year, I'm happy to simply chill out at engagement parties. I came across this accurately funny infographic for bridesmaids and brides. Everything there would be helpful. It's such an important day and the best of friends wouldn't let money get in the way, so it would be very appreciative if brides are helping to keep the costs down. ∙ Some of my own ideas: ∙ Gifts: ∙ -Is it really necessary to have a shower, bachelorette, and [...].