― A little bit of casual hanky panky – can it be a fabulous ego-affirming experience or is it a hollow, soul-destroying experience? PerfectlyRandom and TheRationalOptimist debate it out. PerfectlyRandom: Yes, I’m known as PerfectlyRandom. That, however, does not mean I encourage random sex with random strangers. Although…I don’t exactly discourage it either. Alain de Botton says [...] .