― I've been married twenty years and my husband have NEVER asked me to do anything....NOTHING! He has never asked me to do an errand. He doesn't expect chores done. He doesn't expect much of me. I tried second guessing what he expecting for years. Then I realized he really didn't expect much. He just married me for me. ∙ Then over Christmas holidays, we visited my parents. My mother has a lung issue that causes her to use oxygen at all times and lose a lot of weight. [...].