― I read the article by Chrissie Swan (Love her. Hysterically funny, and now a thought-provoking writer, too) on 'being the other woman'. ∙ In her article for the Sun-Herald 'Sunday Life' magazine, Chrissie talks about being the other woman... but... not knowing 'the wife' even existed. ∙ It's a different spin on cheating... a bit of Clayton's infidelity, I guess: it's the cheating you have when you don't even know you're cheating. ∙ An excerpt from Chrissie's piece: ∙ [...].