― Four years later, Christopher Robin and I are long past the wedding planning phase. We have wed, honeymooned, and have fallen into a comfortable co-exsistance as husband and wife. Looking back on planning there were so many magazines claimed to be perfect for "every" bride looking for individual inspiration. I did not find this as such. I felt like every printed source I explored seemed aimed towards the "fashionista" bride, the "socialite" bride, or the "traditional" bride. Rarely did I [...].