― so. you find out you love someone. how do you know? ∙ what is it about them that defines them so much to you? ∙ is it their hair? or their eyes? or even their attitude? ∙ what about if they were the same sex as you? ∙ a guy or girl? ∙ what would you do then huh? ∙ all over the world we have a wide range of attitudes towards same-sex relationships, civil partnerships, moving in together. there are still so many people who say same-sex 'partnerships' are [...].