― If you've been reading this blog for more than a week, you know that I love my husband. I love him very much. He's an important part of my life, and I will never leave him. Never. ∙ But our sex life is....I don't even know the right words to describe it. There have been periods over the last 25 years when we have gone over a year without sex. There have been many periods when the dry spell lasted months or weeks. Last summer/fall we tried to revitalize our sex life and it got really [...].