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Self Help Tips and Shortcuts to Happiness

 Paula Renaye ― http://hardlineselfhelp.com

What are you willing to do to get what you really want? Seems like an easy question, but it isn't! Get cut-to-the-chase self improvement and personal development tips from The Hardline Self Help Handbook to help you figure out how you can have what you really want. It's all about doing the tough work and getting fast results! Tough Love for Self.

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Listed: Mar 24, 2011

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Meltdowns, Plumbing Revelations and Redemptions

Self Help Tips and Shortcuts to Happiness ― I really hate admitting this, but it sure does make a nice point about recognizing what we say and do, so we can consciously choose whether we want to keep the behavior. And by we, I mean me. I’ve written before about my rebel archetype and how ...

Tags: All Articles, Archetypes, Change Made Easy, Divorce, Divorce Recovery, Free Self Help Tips

Paula Renaye ― 46 weeks ago

Say That Again…

Self Help Tips and Shortcuts to Happiness ― Last night, as I was about to go to sleep, I heard a muffled voice, coming from somewhere across the room. The sound wasn’t clear and I couldn’t understand the words, but as I lay there in the dark, it sounded like the scratchy voice ...

Tags: All Articles, Change Made Easy, Self Help Tips, Divorce, Divorce Recovery, Free Self Help Tips

Paula Renaye ― 48 weeks ago

Things are Falling Apart!

Self Help Tips and Shortcuts to Happiness ― How many times have you heard someone say some version of that lately? They’re constantly looking for ways to confirm that things are going to hell in a hand basket–and they’re finding them! Well, I don’t know what...

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Paula Renaye ― 49 weeks ago

Who Are You Becoming?

Self Help Tips and Shortcuts to Happiness ― A friend posted this photo on facebook and it really touched me. I wish I knew who created this exquisite piece of art so I could give due credit–and see where I could get one! This is such a fabulous representation of what so many of us are...

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Paula Renaye ― 50 weeks ago

Fork Over the Chopsticks

Self Help Tips and Shortcuts to Happiness ― I love Asian food, but for a long time I was resistant to learning to use chopsticks. I had my reasons–and they were petty, possibly related to my divorce and my ex-husband’s choices–and I dug my heels in and refused to even try....

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Paula Renaye ― 51 weeks ago

Getting Old Sucks–Not!

Self Help Tips and Shortcuts to Happiness ― I was in the grocery store yesterday and heard a woman talking on the phone, bemoaning how horrible she felt. “I don’t know who said life starts at fifty,” she grumbled. “Well, it starts all right, it starts going downhill...

Tags: All Articles, Body & Weight, Health & Nutrition, Limiting Beliefs, Tough Love, Accountability

Paula Renaye ― 29 May, 12

I HATE My Life, But…

Self Help Tips and Shortcuts to Happiness ― Why is it that people who are unhappy with their relationships, hate their jobs or just feel victimized by life in general are the ones who will argue vehemently to keep things as they are? Fear, of course. Plain old fear. At the bottom of all the...

Tags: All Articles, Change Made Easy, Choice, Fear, Happiness, Anxiety

Paula Renaye ― 17 May, 12

What’s Wrong with This Picture?

Self Help Tips and Shortcuts to Happiness ― You know those picture games in magazines where you have to find all the things that are wrong? Well, here’s a real life snapshot that I stumbled across the other day. See how many things you find that aren’t quite right. After ...

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Paula Renaye ― 7 May, 12

I Told You So!

Self Help Tips and Shortcuts to Happiness ― We’ve all been there. Something we didn’t want to believe would happen did and we needed a shoulder to cry on. In that moment, all we wanted was someone to tell us it was going to be okay. Instead, we heard things like: I knew this was...

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Paula Renaye ― 25 Apr, 12

Yes, I’m Really Good at That!

Self Help Tips and Shortcuts to Happiness ― I just sent the following article across the pond for my weekly column on Pandora Poikilos’ PeaceFromPieces.blogspot.com. After I sent it, however, it occurred to me why the topic had come up. I’d just spent the last week copy...

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Paula Renaye ― 10 Apr, 12

My Mother, a Big Ol’ Glass of Water and Me

Self Help Tips and Shortcuts to Happiness ― I used to get highly irritated at my mother over drinking water, or actually the not drinking of water. She had chronic kidney problems, but couldn’t see any connection with her anti-water habits–and didn’t want to. I explained,...

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Paula Renaye ― 2 Apr, 12

Online Dating, Marriage and Other Disturbing Thoughts

Self Help Tips and Shortcuts to Happiness ― I can’t tell you how many people I’ve heard say that one of the reasons they’re staying in unfulfilling–and sometimes seriously miserable–relationships are because they don’t want to date and are afraid they...

Tags: All Articles, Notes From Paula, Anxiety, Best, Best Self Help, Depression

Paula Renaye ― 27 Mar, 12

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