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 The Upper Hand ― http://www.the-upper-hand.com

This is the blog of Flora Loveday, former Canadian, now living in Mexico. Here, you will find tips and tricks on how to maintain The Upper Hand when dealing with a psychopathic stalker or domestic abuser. Live a free, safe and sane life.

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Listed: Feb 6, 2011

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One Hell of a Situation...

One Hell of a Situation...

The Upper Hand ― If you want to follow a really prolonged case involving stalking and harassment... check out the blog Cathcart Chronic-als... ∙ You can support Jennifer Lee in her efforts to get someone in the Justice system to wake up and put an end to ...

The Upper Hand ― 18 Nov, 11

Abusive relationships hurt every Canadian

Abusive relationships hurt every Canadian

The Upper Hand ― Source: Sympatico Newsby Nevil Hunt ∙ Health, legal and social services for women faced with abusive relationships cost taxpayers billions of dollars a year. But there's an even better reason to invest in prevention: it's the right thing ...

The Upper Hand ― 20 Oct, 11

I am Fishead - The Movie

I am Fishead - The Movie

The Upper Hand ― "WHAT'S WRONG WITH OUR WORLD?THIS IS A FILM FOR PEOPLE WHO WANT TO KNOW." ∙ Every meaningful change starts with awareness. In our culture, we not only praise psychopaths in the highest positions of power, but in many cases, they became our...

Tags: Corporate Psychopath, Sociopath, Corporation, Fishead, Authority, Movie

The Upper Hand ― 11 Oct, 11

Defining The Upper Hand

The Upper Hand ― In the American Heritage® Dictionary, the upper hand is an idiom, a noun, and defined as: a position of control or advantage. ∙ The phrase is pretty ancient, used a lot in sports from way back in the day. Whenever players chose a team to ...

Tags: Manipulation, Attitude, The Upper Hand, Success, Definition

The Upper Hand ― 8 Oct, 11

Building Bridges With Narcissists

Building Bridges With Narcissists

The Upper Hand ― Is it possible to build a bridge with a narcissist and arrive at a win-win scenario? ∙ The answer based on my experience: no. ∙ Here is some insightful information on how it is like when dealing with a narcissist, using the analogy ...

Tags: Narcissist, Build Bridges, Psychopath

The Upper Hand ― 7 Oct, 11

How To Get Rid of a Stalker

The Upper Hand ― Today I figure we could use a little humour in dealing with that pesky stalker in our life. ∙ Here is a funny video on a couple approaches and tips in handling an annoying stalker. Watch closely and see if you can pick up the keys in how to...

Tags: Pesky, Video, Annoying, Stalker, Funny

The Upper Hand ― 20 Sep, 11

The Mask of Sanity

The Upper Hand ― Imagine - if you can - not having a conscience, none at all, no feelings of guilt or remorse no matter what you do, no limiting sense of concern for the well-being of strangers, friends, or even family members. Imagine no struggles with shame, not ...

Tags: Narcissist, Hiding, Cold-blooded, Sociopath, Feelings, Mask Of Sanity

The Upper Hand ― 9 Sep, 11

Vexatious Litigant - Court of Appeal Upholds Justice for Court-Bullied Victims

Vexatious Litigant - Court of Appeal Upholds Justice for Court-Bullied Victims

The Upper Hand ― Source: Non-judicial proceedings may properly be considered in making a vexatious litigant order ∙ Bishop v. Bishop, 2011 ONCA 211, released online, holds: ∙ [8] As for the second ground of appeal – that the motion judge improperly...

Tags: Vexatious Litigant, Court Of Appeal, Court Bully, Bishop V. Bishop, 2011 ONCA 211, Non-Judicial Proceedings

The Upper Hand ― 29 Jun, 11

How to Spot a Sociopath

The Upper Hand ― I’m not a psychologist, but according to statistics, many verbal / emotional / physical abusers could also be socialized sociopaths - or at the very least, people with extremely narcissistic behavioral patterns. ∙ I’d like to recommend an...

Tags: Narcissist, Behavioural, Sociopath, Dangerous, Abuse, The Sociopath Next Door

The Upper Hand ― 28 Jun, 11

Police Response: Vancouver Rape Relief & Womens Shelter

Police Response: Vancouver Rape Relief & Womens Shelter

The Upper Hand ― Source: Police Response - Vancouver Rape Relief & Women's Shelter ∙ Since we opened in 1973, Vancouver Rape Relief has made significant efforts toward improving police response to women escaping male violence. Despite important formal...

Tags: Canada, Anti-Violence, Oppal Commission, Bonnie Mooney, American Law, Murdered

The Upper Hand ― 26 Jun, 11

Why Couples Counseling (or Mediation) in Abusive Relationships Doesn’t Work

The Upper Hand ― Source: Escape Abuse ∙ Several people have asked about this and we’d like to address it in case any one of them - or anyone — is ever faced with this — or knows anyone who is faced with it. ∙ If you are in any type of intimate...

Tags: Counselor, Couples Counsellng, Narcissistic, Abuse. Gaslghting, Crazymaking

The Upper Hand ― 26 Jun, 11

Master Manipulators and What Makes Them Tick

Master Manipulators and What Makes Them Tick

The Upper Hand ― This is an excerpt from http://narc-attack.blogspot.com/ where you can find writings by Kathy Krajco about the online book “What Makes Narcissists Tick” (available in its entirety HERE for free on EscapeAbuse.com). ∙ Kathy is very good at...

Tags: Sociopath, Malignant Narcissists, What Makes Narcissists Tick, Communicate, Master Manipulation, Psychopath

The Upper Hand ― 25 Jun, 11

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