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Clarin says 609 days ago

i just found out that my friend was cheating on me...he is dating some other girl....but i still like him and dont want him to be dating that girl....she's such a slut...what do i do:(

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Azadhindustan says 608 days ago

Dont use that word for any girl atleast just because she is dating your friend, may be she likes him to as like u.

Nasty says 608 days ago

you are the girl, arent you? how can u use such a vulgar word for a girl.

Clarin says 608 days ago

because she seriously is that....and she dared to say me that my life has got no meaning...just tell me what would you call a girl who sleeps with anyone she meets..

Nasty says 608 days ago

well i think you know her better, so call her whatever u want

Odliam says 608 days ago

It is not easy to tell a person what to do!

I guess the point is not what the other girl is, but what this guy really wants. Sometimes we fall for the wrong person, then we must be strong.

Of course, this is easier to be said to others!

Mirra says 608 days ago

if your boyfriend really loved you, he wouldn't have fallen for her... so, i guess he is also equally responsible, just because you like him doesn't mean that it was the girls mistake... no use blaming the girl. think if you still wanna live with a guy,who sleeps with any girl he passes by!!! don't be blind in love...
+1

Bruno Rodrigues says 608 days ago

Seems that he is also a slut. I'd let the two sluts have each other. Move on, and you'll eventually find someone more deserving of you.

Thelast Onestanding says 607 days ago

kick him in the balls

Hrtgrp says 607 days ago

everything is all up to you but if i was in the same situation i would leave its not worth putting effort into a failing relationship

Vinu Nair says 607 days ago

no one can help you... you should help yourself... just because you were in a relationship with him doesn't mean, you still hang on him... when he is cheating on you... its your boy friend's fault that he went behind her.... don't blame that girl, where both are responsible for this.

Clarin says 607 days ago

@mirra....i agree your point.
@bruno....nd i believe thats true thank you...
@theonelaststanding....i am gonna do that next.

Dawood says 607 days ago

if you love him wait few and check if he is serious on other one.and you can do more with other girl! at this time.finally let him go if no solution.

Mirra says 605 days ago

excuse me!!!! is it the choose the best kinda thing... its about someone's life, feelings and emotion... when the guy is going out with some other girl, it clearly means that he doesn't consider you.. even if he comes back to you some day, he will surely repeat the same thing!!

Clarin says 607 days ago

hope that happens soon.....

Nasty says 606 days ago

Love knows no past present and future love knows only love, everything is fair in love try hard do anything by hook or by crook get him.

Shoaib says 606 days ago

hmmmmmmmmmmmm i think u have just crush on him.

Clarin says 606 days ago

maybe...but i consider him quiet important in my life.....

Aryan says 606 days ago

stp communicatng wid hm 4 few days,he mite understnd ur value...

Victor says 606 days ago

This has to do with Love,as you stated it really looks like you love him.
You have to be who you are for him, and also pray for him always.
I believe with these one day he will definitely return to you if he is meant to be with you.

Clarin says 605 days ago

i cry every night praying for him....but when he behaves like dat my heart questions like does he evn know me.
+1

CrystalKM says 604 days ago

From personal experience, I've learned that there are some personal insecurities going on in a person's mind when they cheat. But that shouldn't justify what he did. This guy cheated on you, he knew what he was doing, and regardless how the other girl acts, what he did was wrong. And he should know that.

Be sad, be angry, but don't sit there and pray that he'll "come to his senses" or that he'll change. You'll only be disappointed and unhappy.

Eniseyin Bababtunde says 604 days ago

move ahead to him and tell him your felling i mean what he did that u are not happy about and am very sure that by confronting him he will stop dating your friend and come back to u.

Clarin says 604 days ago

i did it already...but he so gud in makin out whenever i am angry at him...he does sum sweet talks nd i totally forgive him.....

Nizee says 604 days ago

probably! you are madly inlove with that guy! try to open your eyes first....then see yourself what is goin on with you? are you doin the right thing for the right person? well if you think he deserves you, go on fool yourself! sorry but you need to open your eyes! some1 out there deserves you! let him realize your worth!
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Clarin says 603 days ago

yes...thank you....for your advise....i am gonna meet him today and gonna say it on his face that he is the least deservin person who deserves me. nd if possible i will slap him and let him know that i can find anyone else.

Sayyed says 603 days ago

Good..

Nizee says 603 days ago

wow to rude! anyway go girl!!!

Clarin says 603 days ago

yaaa....

Victor says 574 days ago

Lol...that's not how to make him realize your worth...following the whole story ...it is clear that the guy doesn't love you, and going to him to slap him doesn't make any sense because he might end up beating you...what you have to do is to make know that someone out there deserves you by looking for that person and let him realize the singular fact that he truly does not deserve you.....Take my advice or go for a swollen face..

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