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alcoholic needs help

Malditasitata says 660 days ago

im a certified drinker...
and it ol sinks down to me now..
having a bad reputation..
people see me as a wasted woman..
but im not.. i just want to drink w/ my friends..
im not what people thought of me..
stop judging me and stop taking advantage of me..
stupid boys keep your hands to yourself.. thats not wat i want..

how can i minimize my addiction to drinking coz i know i cant stop it for good..

User Replies (17)

Jyotsna says 659 days ago

hello tata, first you change this " I cant" to "I can", then only u can change urself for good ! Think positively, keep urself busy. All the best !

Malditasitata says 656 days ago

yi.. i can do it but i think not for a long time..
i easily give in to temptations..
its really hard..

Malditasitata says 656 days ago

gosh.. theres a lot of things to do..
but its really hard not to drink if most of your friends do..
it makes me feel out of place..

i really need to stop this adiction coz its ruining my relationship w/ my parents..
but...
i dont know.. i cant explain it..

Kitty says 655 days ago

change your frnds circle..I mean stay away from such frnds, you won't feel out of place ;)

Thiravidan says 655 days ago

Hi Maldi,

Tell to ur self that " I dont drink ". Also if ur friends asked u to have a drink tell them " I dont drink ". Its okay even ur friends coment or Kidding on U. If they compeled u say that u dont have the habit. Instead have some fresh juice.

Dheerender says 654 days ago

juce ahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Malditasitata says 649 days ago

so hard...hehe
cant say no to my happiness
but..thers still hope..

Pragyan Talukdar says 655 days ago

the best way to stop drinking is to stop worrying and stop taking advices.... just go out and have a DRINK! :D

Malditasitata says 649 days ago

best advice..hehe

Jayme says 654 days ago

dont listen to pragyan! he is one to! he is an amazing friend but has nooooo clue what hes talking about in this situation!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Pragyan Talukdar says 653 days ago

ok...ok...i was joking...m serious now...Ignore my previous.. ummm I promised someone not to drink anymore... and i haven't...coz I can't betray that someone coz the person trusts me and...m loyal to that person...also I dont break promises...that is my trademark quality...so, if you have someone that special...and you dont have the knack of breaking promises...you can try what I did... Thank you. :)

Sayyed says 653 days ago

If u cant stop then nobody can help you, their is no answer for negative question.

Jayme says 652 days ago

thanx pragyan!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and i think the number one thing here is be positive

Beanizer says 652 days ago

convince yourself first, then we'll support you:)

*your own WILL is the first key.

*don't think of them..the hell with them!..are they the one paying for your drinks??? (just kidding!)

*stay in good company and influence

Jayme says 652 days ago

whoa beany 6 year olds arent supposed to say hell!!!!!!!!!! lol

Beanizer says 652 days ago

it's kinda awkward to say heaven in that line..errrr...

and..you forgot..i learned it from you ren--i was just a fetus then..

Thiruselvam K says 652 days ago

DO YOU WANT TO STOP? or ARE YOU HOPING TO GET SUPPORT FOR YOUR ADOPTED WEAKNESS? Only you can stop. NO body can do that for you. To change that habit, change your group of friends. Find a group in your place of worship doing charity and communal care. Spend your drinking dollars and time, all here. Very loudly claim to the knowledge of your new found friends that you will contribute every 3rd day of each month money to an orphanage or charitable body. Surrender at the beginning all the dollars for drinking.Give away the money for drinking. Use all the intended hours for drinking, for charity work.
Read Lordita above, She has expounded herself to you.

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