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Being Different Seen As A Crime | The Bully Project

Eugenius on Anti-bullying, Bully Project

18 weeks ago

There is a documentary I’ve been dying to watch for almost a year now. Ever since I watched the trailer for this highly acclaimed documentary I’ve been on the edge of my seat because this is the one that actually might get things moving towards a bigger change, desired across the world, not just US. From its very first seconds I felt all the weight that is was carrying, so many emotions, so much pain, and so such disgust towards some actions that shouldn’t have been tolerated in the first place. It pains me to see people acting like certain things are normal to happen, so many bystanders who couldn’t care less. I guess everyone is for himself, first they care for themselves, and if there is any time left they will consider thinking about other people.

Check out the full article here http://gabrieldilaurentis.com/being-different-seen-as-a-crime/

Also you have the chance to check my brand new website.

Thank in advance.

Waiting for lots and lots of comments, I promise that there won't a comment left unanswered and unappreciated.

20 Replies

Eugenius ∙ 18 weeks ago

Thanks for the visits guys, appreciate a lot.

dennis hodgson ∙ 18 weeks ago

Bullying is always a dreadful thing. I can relate to your feelings because I was bullied as a teenager. Not at school, but I grew up on a rough public housing estate, and some of the thugs there were always picking on me because unlike them I was clever enough to go to the local grammar school.

One day, my chief tormenter picked on me again as I was walking home from school. I just snapped. I backed him against a wall and punched his face nonstop for about five minutes. Even when blood started running from his nose I kept punching. To cut a long story short, nobody on the estate dared to bully me again. I still think that this is the best way to deal with a bully, although I also believe that every school should have an effective anti-bullying policy. I wouldn't send my children to a school that didn't have such a policy.

Rumpunch Drunk ∙ 18 weeks ago

I think that's exactly like it was back in the days Dennis. You'd get bullied for whatever reason, and then after a while when you've had enough, you would just sort the leader out for all to see. I've had my fair share of fights in my youth, as I too was picked on just because I was always the quiet one, but after I physically dealt with them and showed them my teeth, they knew not to mess with me.

I agree that schools need to have effective policies to deal with this, and they ought to get the parents involved big time if there children are bullying others.

Eugenius ∙ 18 weeks ago

somehow i'm not against beating the crap out of the bullies who never stopped to think of the damage they were doing to you and to others, the deserved, vigilante justice yet it's still justice

i wish i could beat the crap out of them when i could, i'm still bullied if i show my face downtown, people in my country are very mean, very judgmental, but i already had enough on my plate at home, it would've been too much

battling bullying at school, battling bullies at home, and it's still happening, that i wrote about it, that's why all people should see that documentary and still it wouldn't be enough, more documentaries should be made on this subject and someday i'll do one too, i just might have the help i need in a few months

also, i will appreciate it sooo much if you could copy/paste your comment on my blog, it would mean the world to me

Rumpunch, i deactivated my blogcatalog, didn't like to be ignored by the main admin, i tried to contact him three times, for no reason my blog removed from their database and it wasn't cool for them to do that

if you want to leave links on my blog to your blog, please do, i'd really like that :)

LA Green ∙ 18 weeks ago

Have you ever heard of gang stalking? and do you believe such a thing exist?

Rumpunch Drunk ∙ 18 weeks ago

Ah, LA Green, can you explain what this is please?

Eugenius ∙ 18 weeks ago

indeed :) can you elaborate ?

Mathew ∙ 18 weeks ago

G'day Fellow Bloggers

In Australia gang stalking is watching out for any one different to have ago at, they can tell by the way people walk in how they will react to their bullying.

Love
Mathew

Eugenius ∙ 17 weeks ago

and no one is doing anything about it?

p.s. i'd appreciate if you'd copy/paste your comment on my blog, i'd like to have it there as something nice to look at :)

plus you could leave a link to your blog and i'd be glad to check it out :)

p.p.s that goes for everybody :)

Mathew ∙ 18 weeks ago

G'day Eugenius

Bullying has a long term psychological effect on the bullied resulting in self harm, varied psychosis episodes, violent out bursts, introverted tendencies & so on right into adult hood but the sad thing is gang bullies know the problem they are causing.

Love
Mathew

Rumpunch Drunk ∙ 17 weeks ago

Thanks for the info on gang stalking, and it's so true what you have said in this comment.

Eugenius ∙ 17 weeks ago

hey there, as i said in one of these comments please leave your comment on my blog, just in case more people tune in, they should read your comment, it's a great comment :)

LA Green ∙ 17 weeks ago

Gang Stalking: It's when a group of people harass another person until they either leave town, quit/get fired from there job or kill themselves. This kind of act is done very secretive so that it makes the person look crazy when they say that people are purposely fucking their lives up. For example, these people will do things like screw with your car when your not looking, start problems at your job that some how fall back on you, tear your relationship up with a spouse or even relatives, just horrible things to a person. Of course, something like this cannot be taken to the police because its done in such a way were evidence does not rear its ugly head. They start shit with others to make it looks as natural as possible. Every now and then, they will expose who they are just to mess with your head. In a nut shell, this is bullying to the extreme. So if you know people who are going through this, do not ignore them. Listen to what's going on in their everyday life.

Signs to look for: If you know a person who normally exceeds in life and all of a sudden weird events keep happening to them, it could either be a rough patch or it could be the works of a gang stalker. There's is a difference in natural cause and something that was caused to look natural; man can not create nature therefore, you can tell if it's man made. Let's say at work you've been doing really well for the past year or so and all of a sudden errors keep happening in your work. For the past year nothing has changed in your life, your sleep pattern is still the same, diet is still the same nothing about you has changed; your work rhythm has not changed. Yet errors keep coming about. That's not natural.

I mean of course, you might be to close to something and begin to make errors but normally you bounce back. Let's say after about a month, problems are getting worse, and the same formula you used to gain success is not working; remember nothing has changed in your life or at work, then its time to cut the grass and see who might be the snake or snakes at work.

Eugenius ∙ 17 weeks ago

thanks for making that clearer to me :) write a post about it and drop me the link :)

Rumpunch Drunk ∙ 17 weeks ago

@LA Green. Thanks for really breaking it down in this way. I've heard of things like this happening in big companies where people are fighting for positions or recognition of some sort. It's amazing how low someone would go in order to get someone out of a job etc...
It's always important to listen when you hear from people who are experiencing this kind of thing. It's a real problem due to it's subtlety (not sure if spelt right) and more people should know what is going on.. Thanks

LA Green ∙ 17 weeks ago

Forgive my language I used...this happened to my brother and he had to pack his bags and move to Atlanta and start his life all over again. As LA GREEN my company I'm starting, my mission is to better people. So may it be mentally, physical or communities; basically awareness. I'm for our planet to be better but we need to treat each other better; we need to evolve. War and destruction is a lack of intelligence; or for better words an understanding. Of course in human nature, we will eventually clash with each other but, it should not be a point of death or fighting and bickering. It should be, you pissed me off, what can we do to resolve this problem and handle it like civilized humans; because as of now, I really don't see any difference between human society and a pack of Lions. The only difference: A lion uses sabotage and manipulation to hunt; that's what it takes to surround there prey. Us humans being at the top, use the same technique but we have thumbs so it gives us an advantage to use tools. Now were we should be at: We should be pass manipulation and sabotage; that's for the animals. Humans by now, if we fight, we should be using peace as a means of fighting.

Eugenius ∙ 17 weeks ago

ok, you convinced me, i have to have your comment on my blog, please pretty please, these are amazing comment and wish more people would read them, would you do that for me? :)

LA Green ∙ 17 weeks ago

Of course Eugenius. =)

Eugenius ∙ 17 weeks ago

thanks, also leave a link to your blog if you have one :)

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