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can a person create there own love?

Stephanie says 530 days ago

I just really want to know, does the love between you and someone else have to be like it is in the movies or can you create something new and unique??? I'm sick of everything having to be the same. People have there own ways of liking a person or falling in love with someone. So why does it seem like we have to follow some rules all the time or do what everybody else is doing. So,what I'm trying to say is can you create your own type of love that will work for you?

Please I need an answer. Thank you:)

User Replies (16)

Jayme says 530 days ago

yes. i believe you can. each person is an indivitual who has her, or his own personality. we have free will which is an oppertunity to take advantage and do it our own way :)

Stephanie says 527 days ago

Thank you!

Dyane says 530 days ago

You are reminding me a boy,I guess he used to like me a lot.One day he asked me this same question.

So I'm telling the same answer I told him .Its no.We don't make anything in reality.It just happens.Love is not a story.Its life.How can you decide love?Can you define it?I don't think all love stories are same too.Its different all the time!But as it is on same topics(Love)..you may get only similarities.

But yes if you mean,can we write them?Well,we can do that.

Stephanie says 527 days ago

Thank you! :)

Lovely says 530 days ago

First fall in love and then, you will understand that truth is stranger than fiction... The love in your life can be the most different and unique as compared to all movies till now....

Stephanie says 527 days ago

Thank you! :) That makes sense. I think I'm just trying to search to much for the right thing instead of just waiting for it or the right time.

Priyanika says 530 days ago

a person is so designed that he can create his own life, love is just a part of it. you just need the will power and faith to succeed, one can achieve anything.
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Stephanie says 527 days ago

I completely agree! Thanks:)

Honeylyn Perez says 529 days ago

yes you can, just be yourself. Don't let other people judge you how you love someone. You have the power to ignite the love you feel and you have all the control on how to show it...

Stephanie says 527 days ago

:) Thank you!

Phamiel says 527 days ago

You can if you believe in yourself. A person who loves herself, trust herself, does everything in lieu of her moral codes can attract the love of others in various ways.

A person who is bland, uncreative and empty has no choice but to depend on the rules imposed by the society.

Stephanie says 525 days ago

Thanks:)

Edison says 525 days ago

you make your own way of loving.. what we see in movies are not all of it applicable in reality... each relationship is unique
+1

Roxyandricky says 466 days ago

you have to learn to love. and the onlyway you can learn is to be open and honest with yourself and him.

Ravali says 465 days ago

love shouldn't be tested it happens,well in that way every girl will have a dream her boyfriend should be like a prince or something like that but nothing happens!

NewsMeBack says 365 days ago

Of course you can create your own type of love. Relationships are unique themselves because partners are unique characters. We like to follow some traditions and customs but again it's up to us and our decisions.

What would you say?