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Can anyone forget their First Love???
Ravali says 789 days ago
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i have seen many people who are well settled and whenever they think of these past memories of their first love just tears fall through over their eyes,i don't know why but it's pretty sad to watch them,feeling regretted and mood off that day!!!
why this happens???
why this happens???
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Ravali says 789 days ago
if you love someone truly and that person ditches yo,you never forget that person but that person will forget you that's the power of love,so surely u will cry!!!
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Beanizer says 789 days ago
you will never forget the person..but your feelings will never be the same..if you have forgiven yourself and your past, you will never feel the same pain caused by that same person in the present..
so ravie..i bet you really did experience this kind of luv..wow!
so ravie..i bet you really did experience this kind of luv..wow!
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Ravali says 789 days ago
mental bean i didn't love any stupid person and i won't love anyone and don't want to fall in a pit,u loved i think!!!
Beanizer says 789 days ago
but you still want to fall in love right? like having someone who'll make your heart beats abnormal..hhehe..love is the best feeling..and yeah..i did love:)
Ravali says 789 days ago
i don't want to love and i don't want that feeling!!!!
well u beany got love then is it succesful??
well u beany got love then is it succesful??
Beanizer says 789 days ago
as for me, yes it is successful 'coz i felt the best feeling i least expect and getting hurt made you learn how to deal with it again. SOme love doesn't last forever but it never meant that it wasn't true.
Fall in love ravie:)
Fall in love ravie:)
Suraj Vibhute says 788 days ago
I am totally agree with Bean, its all up to us that how we think and want. If you think positively then you will not cry.
I prefer to live with the person who loves me not whom I love.
I prefer to live with the person who loves me not whom I love.
Lavozdelblog says 789 days ago
no that's the good one.. because that's your real love!! :-) The last it's forever... if it's not then it wasn't love :-)
Ravali says 789 days ago
hey im saying that if u luvs the gal but there is no way that she will too luv the same!!!
Beanizer says 789 days ago
ofcourse she will luv the same if your feelings is mutual..
Lucky for those who had their first as their last love..it's a genuine love and i rarely happens..wow!
Lucky for those who had their first as their last love..it's a genuine love and i rarely happens..wow!
Sudheera says 788 days ago
feel the love...hmm... but feeling love is also a feeling called love.....hehe...
So Ravie loving a person is not a crime...
So Ravie loving a person is not a crime...
Myjourney says 789 days ago
i completel it is a little different in my case i get angry but i am sad also .... cos my gal cheated on me and i really loved her ... due to which had to face lot of problems .... y agree .... but
Jolly Princess says 788 days ago
I remember my first love but I think of the happy moments as I don’t want to wallow on miseries. I want to live without having to deal with excess baggage I call emotion. After all I don’t live for only one person. I learned to let go and be happy that in my life, there came a sincere feeling, of falling in loved. ^_^
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Bruno Rodrigues says 788 days ago
People have memories of just about everything. There's no magic switch in our heads that just lets us pick and choose which memories we keep. I remember all the women I've been with down to their birthdays, favorite colors, etc. Usually, people may feel regret or sadness over some type of rejection until they find a new partner. Other people simply have difficulty letting go of the past and moving on with their lives. My last relationship ended with my partner cheating on me. Without going into details of the situation, I was left devastated. I was under a lot of stress in my last semester of school and was also working part-time. It took some time for me to get over what happened, but I eventually started dating again. Not too long after, I met the woman who is now my wife.
Ravali says 786 days ago
you are truly a good person i think that's why those stupid girls couldn't understand!!!!
Dreamy Eyed Girl says 788 days ago
may be u remember your first love coz of the extreme happiness it gave or coz of the extreme pain that it resulted in
Gurpreet says 786 days ago
lol ,,,you have no idea , what i have experienced till now ... lolll ,that would be rather painful
Ravali says 785 days ago
hey every person had some story i think wow,really many are victims of this LOVE!!!!
Gurpreet says 785 days ago
yaahh . we all are same , mmmm i wont say victim but it is our choice weather we want to move on or we have courage to stand still against every thing ,well i opted to stand and hold on
Sudheera says 785 days ago
i don't think loving a person is wrong so ravie & Gurpreet love failure is not a bomb blast and no one r victims to it.. if u fail in love then its the only indication of better future....don't b down hearted...
Gurpreet says 785 days ago
lol,,thats why i stand still to the winds exposed .... i have faced a lot and ready to face more , if it was love ,it will not be forgotten ,, !!!! thats what i do ,,that what i am ,,,that how it will be ,, thats how i want it to be ,never forgotten !!! lol
Sudheera says 784 days ago
Gurpreet didn't get u at all..... don't forget ur first love bt don't wait for her life long.....
Gurpreet says 784 days ago
lol,,nothing serious though ,,
but as i said ,,if it was love ,how can it be forgotten ,,lol
but as i said ,,if it was love ,how can it be forgotten ,,lol
Mattscradle says 787 days ago
They remember their first love only by name but by there is no feelings anymore.
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Angelina says 787 days ago
Sure I can. He asked me to marry him and then cheated on me so...I crashed his car! Ah love. He moved away after that so I really don't know what happened to him but someone told me that he now has a wife and two kids- I pitty her.
Thiruselvam K says 787 days ago
FIRST LOVE as in LOVING MUM! Who can forget, even if in anger, on chooses to migrate or live miles apart!.
Thiruselvam K says 784 days ago
Tears probably flow from the eyes of a person who had so much overflowing affection, yet for many reasons, the nuptial knot did not materialize. It could be: an unexpected death of that lover;
deception by that lover; refusal of consenting marriage by parents on one or both sides. astological reasons did not favour and so on.
What else...... but tears and emotional chokes being the only outlet of and for lost love.
deception by that lover; refusal of consenting marriage by parents on one or both sides. astological reasons did not favour and so on.
What else...... but tears and emotional chokes being the only outlet of and for lost love.
Sweetie says 767 days ago
I REALLY DONT THINK SO ESPECIALLY IF THERE IS CHILDREN INVOLVED UNLESS HE TREATED U LIKE THE 2ND BASE INSTEAD OF HOMEBASE....THEN I SAY YES IT'S EASY lol
Johann Kotze says 750 days ago
i identify with you..i hear you..i feel you..mine started at 17 teen, and in some way, controlled my life till today. I was not in control of my mind..and still regret many things..
Ravali says 750 days ago
well yes,first love isn't a easy task to forget!!!
but moving on is best!!!
but moving on is best!!!
Be Good To Everyone says 750 days ago
i think it's ok to be sad thinking about someone you love who's not with you any more..sadness is just one of the feeling..it should not becone depression though...if someone hurt you it's better to move on ..unless the person changes...there's no way you can forget your first love...just find someone you would love you more...i agree with ravali..just move on..
PREM Kush says 748 days ago
those type of feeling u feels in first love,,,,,,,, u will be never feels in ur future .....thats y we have always remember our first love
Ravali says 747 days ago
yes may be but i have seen many who probably couldn't forget their first love!!!
MAULIN says 747 days ago
hmmm....first love is feelings and sensation of life suffered in enjoyment with real heart regretting about past........so when ever we feel love of past (LP), Our tears are making us feel thatz da True Love......Sayonara........*Maulin*
Priyanika says 747 days ago
u should be happy that it happened, and since it is over that is the reality, face it and move on, learn from it and embrace a better future, which is waiting for you to accept
Poetic Tragedy says 745 days ago
A first love isn't perfect. It's not always a fairytale, and u will both live happily ever after. When your in love, you put ur heart on the line and risk everything. The way you feel is just amazing though. Butterflies in ur stomach just by looking at the one u love. And when they turn to look at u, and u see tht smile widen, u end up totally blushing. The fights u will have and the tears u will shed, will be just an obsticle in the way. Whether or not it lasts 4ever, it's sumthing worth Fighting 4. Something everyone shuld have to feel and experience. First loves will always be important but if they weren't the one, imagine wat it wuld be lyk with the person truely made 4 u:) the right person:D
Ravali says 745 days ago
hey i was not having any relationships before but i had seen many including my brother who was now feeling bad because of his first love which was his true love but nevertheless he moved on so i just wanted to know about you people opinion.
Ravali says 745 days ago
well,beany is a good friend of mine.i must agree that through online too we can get good friends which proved now for me!!!
well i'm happy to be single chris,no love please!!!
i'm still young!!!
hahahah....
well i'm happy to be single chris,no love please!!!
i'm still young!!!
hahahah....
Nicks says 745 days ago
ya! Totally agreed!! no one can really forget his/her 1st love.. even if u move on, n hav a new love n ur life n everything.. BUT Still! you can't face that person normally.. u'll definitely feel a twinkle in ur heart, once again, just like before ;)
i don't kno its sweet or sad, But it is LOVE
i don't kno its sweet or sad, But it is LOVE
Ravali says 745 days ago
well that's true!!!
but moving on must be needed ok!!!
but i think we must not forget that past love but keep it as a sweetest memory of past and live upon our life happily!!!
but moving on must be needed ok!!!
but i think we must not forget that past love but keep it as a sweetest memory of past and live upon our life happily!!!
Ravali says 745 days ago
well it's my question pal,anyways if u had any love then u will know i think,as we are both in the same ship don't worry our blog mates will tell us the answer of how would it be like!!!
Chi Chi says 745 days ago
actually, it really depends on how the relationship ended. that person with tears whenever he/she thought of his/her past love, i have a strong intuition that they never had a CLOSURE thats why it saddens them. in every relationship, whether you had bad or good journey, CLOSURE is essential.
and to forget or not their first love? hmm i believe if you really want to forget someone, the only reason why a person could possibly do that is "TRAGIC"
and to forget or not their first love? hmm i believe if you really want to forget someone, the only reason why a person could possibly do that is "TRAGIC"
Chi Chi says 745 days ago
OMG I SPAMMED. i was lag... i am so sorry for that. kindly DELETE my other post. again im sorry.. thank you :)
Ravali says 744 days ago
no problemo!!!
well u said correct but though we cannot say about the person how he/she would be like until we come to know after that it would be painful if that person was not correct,well it happened to my bro at past!!!
well u said correct but though we cannot say about the person how he/she would be like until we come to know after that it would be painful if that person was not correct,well it happened to my bro at past!!!
Leon Gore says 744 days ago
No I don't ..but that's all that is there . . memories . . feeling ? gone long time ago. . but she will always be a part of my life . . know the song In My Life by The Beatles written by John Lennon?
Ravali says 744 days ago
hehehe..no but i will sure listen it!!!
well that's gud,leaving upon the past has to be needed.
well that's gud,leaving upon the past has to be needed.
Danya says 743 days ago
well maybe because the First Love was pure, maybe we cry because we rememeber how naive we were and we wish we'd be again like that, maybe we cry because we suffered from our First Love, and yet, we'd want to re-live what happend then
Cecille says 743 days ago
I can't forget my first love until now that I have my own family. Sometimes I imagine him and ask myself what will I do if i saw him, how my feelings would be.
Ravali says 741 days ago
that's really sad to hear,but yes you moved on in ur life that's the best part u did!!!
i hope for the best for ur future!!!
i hope for the best for ur future!!!
Lost Dreamer says 736 days ago
its quite hard to start with u miss them every waking moment then u see them in ur sleep
you keep looking at ur cell hoping to get a txt or a call then u realize that aint gonna happen its one hellova phase to get through
you keep looking at ur cell hoping to get a txt or a call then u realize that aint gonna happen its one hellova phase to get through
Ravali says 734 days ago
well i think you are going to this at present,hope you get the best partner in future
Newyork says 735 days ago
well i can really remember my frist love but he hurt me a lot but still i kept hurtin for 1 year and i truly realized it was obsession anyways later i fell in love and this time it really feels love weve been datin for 7 months first we broke up for no reason but we kept in touch all the time then got back together and now we broke up cos he lost trust in me but actually i didnt lie to him and he thinks i lied now everytime we go out we act like we togeteher actually we forget were not together but when we talk on msn we talk like freinds and he reminds me all the time that theres no comin back.. :S but still its been a great relatinship and i truly HOPE to go back i need help
Sarah Rahman says 733 days ago
No matter what..it isn't easy to forget your first love if it's a true one..
Clarin says 728 days ago
i dont knw bout love but the first person you are attracted to seems little hard to forget.it stays bright inside you even if you are settled.
Ravali says 726 days ago
well i don't have one for sure,it's just i wanted to know about other's love stories if they have!!
well you are still young,don't love this young ok!!!
hhehehehe...
well you are still young,don't love this young ok!!!
hhehehehe...
Beybi says 726 days ago
awww i can never forget my first love..hihi though we didnt end up together, still it makes me smile just by remebering him
Ravali says 725 days ago
well i don't know about love but i still remember my enemy who made my life this horrible at my past?(atleast by hating her)
Shinori says 726 days ago
i believe it's really hard to just forget about the person who made you experience the first feeling of being in-love. however, you will always remember the boy/girl but the feeling you have for that person is not the same as before.
Ravali says 725 days ago
hey lyn you are always welcome in my talks(at least they will be on the top)hehheeh
Venum says 725 days ago
i think it is not possible. ur first love comes in ur mind when sumthing hapends which relates to him or her
A L A N K R I T A says 721 days ago
when I opened my eyes my first love was my mom. When I grew up & my mom showed me my papa & I thought he is my first love. With times & the the changes in my hormone-body my first loves changed. I think I have several lives like a passing train with many compartments. In each life there is a first love. The compartment passes before you the first love is gone. the first love of youth I believe is a dream, an inrush of hormones influencing emotions.
Sudheera says 714 days ago
well ravie OMG 123 comments nd tht too abt first love .. it really proved tht first love cant b forgotten bt did u find one interesting fact mny ppl here r first love failures tht really make sense tht first love cant b successful in most extent .. well im happy i don hav one.. nw tell me who was ur first love ravie????
Ravali says 714 days ago
my first love is my mom and dad that's all,i didn't find any person who is interesting!!!
Jojo Javier says 713 days ago
I can say no. I still remember, I was in sixth grade when I first fell in love, and she was in fifth grade. They said its a puppy love though. But this love went through even after my high school days. And you know what? I only told her my feelings when I'm in 2nd year college. Well...that's all folks...the rest is full of mystery ahaha....
Ravali says 713 days ago
wow ok sure then i want not only sharks but also puppies too!!!
you know i had a beautiful dog in my house which is a naughtiest one.heheh..
you know i had a beautiful dog in my house which is a naughtiest one.heheh..
Ravali says 712 days ago
thanks so much,i'm following ur blog too from today onwards..psst..yet to follow but i will now ok!!!
MssMegz says 713 days ago
I will never forget him never, and its always hard to find some one who comes abouve him
ONYEMA says 707 days ago
I just like beanizer's contribution. The more you look back to the past the less you obtain in the future. So why can't you look forward to the goodies in the future hoping to catch the best of you true love.
Ravali says 706 days ago
that's really sweet of you but hopefully i didn't got one until now and i'm young for that.hehe...
Lancey says 706 days ago
Miss Ravali it depends and it is a decision of the persons involved.I already forgot my first love memories because I already found my match and that what matters.I did not forget her name but the memories and feelings are gone already.If the person is still crying because of his first love then he may not moved on and he still have feelings.
Ravali says 706 days ago
well you know,one cannot forget their loved one's that easily and i knew you just said that you forgotten the past but if you had forgotten then why you had the memories still??
that's what i say many these days are loosing their beautiful relationships due to some petty quarrels which make them to forget their loved ones!!!
that's what i say many these days are loosing their beautiful relationships due to some petty quarrels which make them to forget their loved ones!!!
Ravali says 704 days ago
well mr.shahid i doesn't want to say that there will be a first love or second one but my question was many people these days love one guy and marry other guy but they couldn't forget their love for the first one so,my qn was do u still remember that gal??
A P Geofrey says 705 days ago
Fisrt love second love and.......... I think all that doesn't matter what matters to me is the person for whom my heart is beating up and down for right now.
Sonaray says 704 days ago
The true love is actually for once. there is never any second third........That can be compromise only
Ravali says 704 days ago
if u can succeed in ur first love and marry that guy then i agree with you that you people love is great!!!
Thiruselvam K says 704 days ago
Hi Ravali, Good question. Plenty of answers, thoughts and expressions. This example would help. A new Ravali may has shown up here, but the first (not old) Ravali's image still appears in the mind.
Similarly, the first love will show up somehow and somewhere from nowhere. Have I answered, convinced or confused!!!!!!!
Similarly, the first love will show up somehow and somewhere from nowhere. Have I answered, convinced or confused!!!!!!!
Graceyest says 704 days ago
I won't forget the name of my first love but the feelings definitely are gone.I am now happy with my relationship now so goodbye to my first love and hello to my true love.
Ravali I have a question for you, so are you single and ready to mingle? (lol)
Ravali I have a question for you, so are you single and ready to mingle? (lol)
Ravali says 704 days ago
hahah..i'm still young i think for loving a guy!!!
well that's gud you moved on!!!
well that's gud you moved on!!!
PrettyDoll says 704 days ago
well good question.........
i can never forget my first love and i think that no one can forget their first love if its true love...
i can never forget my first love and i think that no one can forget their first love if its true love...
Ravali says 603 days ago
love is a divine thing and if you really a true person you would definitely have found your true love...
A true heart love never fails...
you don't know the meaning of love i think or you couldn't experienced one.
A true heart love never fails...
you don't know the meaning of love i think or you couldn't experienced one.
Yvette Mix says 606 days ago
Love is unconditional and should be recieved and given in that way, so when that other person walk out of our life we cherish the good times we shared. that is how we move on in love
Ravali says 603 days ago
Love is forever and ever the one thing in love is what we think may not be same but what we feel will be the same,what we like may not be the same but we have will be the one which we deserve the same!!!
Love is everywhere just feel it ...
Love is everywhere just feel it ...
Nishima says 602 days ago
I totally second with that,the times spent together can never be forgotton,but one has to move on.....so I'm moving on with the memories ,at least those can't be snatched from me.
Nizee says 606 days ago
can i share my story.... 5 years ago since the last time i share my life with, im afraid i could fall again for the wrong person im really afraid coz i have already 2 falls!!! i hate to fall inlove again coz i felt so weak whenever my heart beats. i think my problem is finding the right 1 for me..is there any other way for us to find out whose going to be our partner for a lifetime? i doubt it! when i was younger i dreamd of my first love to be my last love but he end up cheating on me!!!!! now i still have fears of fallin inlove yet waiting for the right 1 to come.
LiraMaria says 605 days ago
It's natural that you are waiting someone to come...no one want to be alone...but the right one? If you want him/her you have to fall in love 10 or 100 times before...understand what the word love means for you and than...you'll find out who the right one is at the first sight.
This is what Granny told me...
This is what Granny told me...
Ravali says 603 days ago
love is everywhere may be the first love of yours a sad one or that love isn't your true love... may be your true love is before you and you cannot understand that...
Nizee says 605 days ago
cool ive learnd from you and your granny! sad to say but i still need to fall in love to 8 or 98 guys for me to find the right 1, at the age of 26! o.m.G!!! i need a rush.....hahaha just kidding God will lead the way for me.. thanks anyway!
Melodysolanocruz says 605 days ago
nice.... for me, no, i didnt forget him and never will be, first love is first love, uhmmn, this is my first crush, first love, first beat of my heart, first date, first and mostly happened--dinner date =), first movie that weve watched together, first kisssss =), first pain wen we broke up =(...thats why hes really a part and never be forget!
Ravali says 603 days ago
well yes it will be...that's the sweetest memory which we cannot forget..because it's first...
Harshad Shete says 605 days ago
Well i have forgotten my 1st love..... sje used to like sum1else. and moreever she ran and married dat guy. Wat a childish thing to do. well i thank god dat i came to know abt her early. i hate these kind of immature lovers.
Ravali says 603 days ago
well you loved her but she didn't but don't say im matured lovers because immaturity is not in their mind but in their heart so people might have did a mistake it's not their fault..heheh
Eniseyin Bababtunde says 604 days ago
dat is the most painful thing in life, the first lover that i has failed me
and i almost fall sick but by the grace of god i recover from this pain and agony but still now am still searching for one
and i almost fall sick but by the grace of god i recover from this pain and agony but still now am still searching for one
Ravali says 603 days ago
don't be sad you will find your true love sooner...just don't give up finding one!!!
A L A N K R I T A says 602 days ago
They say Love is blind but many a times first love is extremely blind. At tender age & immature mind the first love is extremely fragile & volatile, giving heart aches for a long time.
Adebayobolaji says 601 days ago
it is possible, because it took me 5 mins to remember my first love and i am not even sure as i am typing this reply
Honeylyn Perez says 600 days ago
first will always be first, it's irreplaceable with 2nd, 3rd and so on. It's like a treasure depending on how you view that first love, it might be sad,funny,embarrassing or unforgettable. If you forget that, then, that's not the first time you feel love.
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Beanizer says 789 days ago
it's not the first that would make you cry,it's the best or yet the truest one..