Beanizer ∙ 30 Mar, 10
sad tears caused by the past is a proof of not moving on.
it's not the first that would make you cry,it's the best or yet the truest one..
why this happens???
sad tears caused by the past is a proof of not moving on.
it's not the first that would make you cry,it's the best or yet the truest one..
if you love someone truly and that person ditches yo,you never forget that person but that person will forget you that's the power of love,so surely u will cry!!!
you will never forget the person..but your feelings will never be the same..if you have forgiven yourself and your past, you will never feel the same pain caused by that same person in the present..
so ravie..i bet you really did experience this kind of luv..wow!
mental bean i didn't love any stupid person and i won't love anyone and don't want to fall in a pit,u loved i think!!!
but you still want to fall in love right? like having someone who'll make your heart beats abnormal..hhehe..love is the best feeling..and yeah..i did love:)
i don't want to love and i don't want that feeling!!!!
well u beany got love then is it succesful??
as for me, yes it is successful 'coz i felt the best feeling i least expect and getting hurt made you learn how to deal with it again. SOme love doesn't last forever but it never meant that it wasn't true.
Fall in love ravie:)
I am totally agree with Bean, its all up to us that how we think and want. If you think positively then you will not cry.
I prefer to live with the person who loves me not whom I love.
First Love is the Last One!! :-)
if that one fails then?
no that's the good one.. because that's your real love!! :-) The last it's forever... if it's not then it wasn't love :-)
hey im saying that if u luvs the gal but there is no way that she will too luv the same!!!
ofcourse she will luv the same if your feelings is mutual..
Lucky for those who had their first as their last love..it's a genuine love and i rarely happens..wow!
first love hmmmmmmm..... i will tell u when i fall in love.....lol.....
don't fall in it just feel the love that's it!!!
feel the love...hmm... but feeling love is also a feeling called love.....hehe...
So Ravie loving a person is not a crime...
i completel it is a little different in my case i get angry but i am sad also .... cos my gal cheated on me and i really loved her ... due to which had to face lot of problems .... y agree .... but
ohh really that's sad!!!
hmm same case wid me
Second chances are not given to make things right. But are given to prove that we could be better even after we fall.
I remember my first love but I think of the happy moments as I don’t want to wallow on miseries. I want to live without having to deal with excess baggage I call emotion. After all I don’t live for only one person. I learned to let go and be happy that in my life, there came a sincere feeling, of falling in loved. ^_^
yeah same with me also. :)
looks like many people got memories of their past love...
People have memories of just about everything. There's no magic switch in our heads that just lets us pick and choose which memories we keep. I remember all the women I've been with down to their birthdays, favorite colors, etc. Usually, people may feel regret or sadness over some type of rejection until they find a new partner. Other people simply have difficulty letting go of the past and moving on with their lives. My last relationship ended with my partner cheating on me. Without going into details of the situation, I was left devastated. I was under a lot of stress in my last semester of school and was also working part-time. It took some time for me to get over what happened, but I eventually started dating again. Not too long after, I met the woman who is now my wife.
you are truly a good person i think that's why those stupid girls couldn't understand!!!!
never, till now, i missed him much!!
oh well i hope you get a good husband soon!!!
yeah, it is impossible..dats y i dont want to miss it
may be u remember your first love coz of the extreme happiness it gave or coz of the extreme pain that it resulted in
may be sure!!!!!
if it was love , how can it be forgotten ??
you will experience when you will pass that life...
lol ,,,you have no idea , what i have experienced till now ... lolll ,that would be rather painful
hey every person had some story i think wow,really many are victims of this LOVE!!!!
yaahh . we all are same , mmmm i wont say victim but it is our choice weather we want to move on or we have courage to stand still against every thing ,well i opted to stand and hold on
i don't think loving a person is wrong so ravie & Gurpreet love failure is not a bomb blast and no one r victims to it.. if u fail in love then its the only indication of better future....don't b down hearted...
lol,,thats why i stand still to the winds exposed .... i have faced a lot and ready to face more , if it was love ,it will not be forgotten ,, !!!! thats what i do ,,that what i am ,,,that how it will be ,, thats how i want it to be ,never forgotten !!! lol
hope you get the best gal!!!!
Gurpreet didn't get u at all..... don't forget ur first love bt don't wait for her life long.....
lol,,nothing serious though ,,
but as i said ,,if it was love ,how can it be forgotten ,,lol
They remember their first love only by name but by there is no feelings anymore.
What do you think?
yep a good one!!!
Sure I can. He asked me to marry him and then cheated on me so...I crashed his car! Ah love. He moved away after that so I really don't know what happened to him but someone told me that he now has a wife and two kids- I pitty her.
gal you rock!!!!
FIRST LOVE as in LOVING MUM! Who can forget, even if in anger, on chooses to migrate or live miles apart!.
definitely i agree that!!!
Tears probably flow from the eyes of a person who had so much overflowing affection, yet for many reasons, the nuptial knot did not materialize. It could be: an unexpected death of that lover;
deception by that lover; refusal of consenting marriage by parents on one or both sides. astological reasons did not favour and so on.
What else...... but tears and emotional chokes being the only outlet of and for lost love.
yes you are right!!!
I REALLY DONT THINK SO ESPECIALLY IF THERE IS CHILDREN INVOLVED UNLESS HE TREATED U LIKE THE 2ND BASE INSTEAD OF HOMEBASE....THEN I SAY YES IT'S EASY lol
well in some cases it is!!!
lol...hard to answer you!!!
i identify with you..i hear you..i feel you..mine started at 17 teen, and in some way, controlled my life till today. I was not in control of my mind..and still regret many things..
well yes,first love isn't a easy task to forget!!!
but moving on is best!!!
i think it's ok to be sad thinking about someone you love who's not with you any more..sadness is just one of the feeling..it should not becone depression though...if someone hurt you it's better to move on ..unless the person changes...there's no way you can forget your first love...just find someone you would love you more...i agree with ravali..just move on..
so didn't u got a love story of your's???
those type of feeling u feels in first love,,,,,,,, u will be never feels in ur future .....thats y we have always remember our first love
yes may be but i have seen many who probably couldn't forget their first love!!!
hmmm....first love is feelings and sensation of life suffered in enjoyment with real heart regretting about past........so when ever we feel love of past (LP), Our tears are making us feel thatz da True Love......Sayonara........*Maulin*
well said,so u have been through this i think!!!
u should be happy that it happened, and since it is over that is the reality, face it and move on, learn from it and embrace a better future, which is waiting for you to accept
well fortunately i din't have a love story!!!
A first love isn't perfect. It's not always a fairytale, and u will both live happily ever after. When your in love, you put ur heart on the line and risk everything. The way you feel is just amazing though. Butterflies in ur stomach just by looking at the one u love. And when they turn to look at u, and u see tht smile widen, u end up totally blushing. The fights u will have and the tears u will shed, will be just an obsticle in the way. Whether or not it lasts 4ever, it's sumthing worth Fighting 4. Something everyone shuld have to feel and experience. First loves will always be important but if they weren't the one, imagine wat it wuld be lyk with the person truely made 4 u:) the right person:D
well yes but some first loves indeed succeed as far as i know!!!
Those people r really lucky then:)
yes you are right!!!
ya! Totally agreed!! no one can really forget his/her 1st love.. even if u move on, n hav a new love n ur life n everything.. BUT Still! you can't face that person normally.. u'll definitely feel a twinkle in ur heart, once again, just like before ;)
i don't kno its sweet or sad, But it is LOVE
well that's true!!!
but moving on must be needed ok!!!
but i think we must not forget that past love but keep it as a sweetest memory of past and live upon our life happily!!!
well it's quite very difficult to for everyone to forgot dare first love?
well it's my question pal,anyways if u had any love then u will know i think,as we are both in the same ship don't worry our blog mates will tell us the answer of how would it be like!!!
actually, it really depends on how the relationship ended. that person with tears whenever he/she thought of his/her past love, i have a strong intuition that they never had a CLOSURE thats why it saddens them. in every relationship, whether you had bad or good journey, CLOSURE is essential.
and to forget or not their first love? hmm i believe if you really want to forget someone, the only reason why a person could possibly do that is "TRAGIC"
OMG I SPAMMED. i was lag... i am so sorry for that. kindly DELETE my other post. again im sorry.. thank you :)
well u said correct but though we cannot say about the person how he/she would be like until we come to know after that it would be painful if that person was not correct,well it happened to my bro at past!!!
No I don't ..but that's all that is there . . memories . . feeling ? gone long time ago. . but she will always be a part of my life . . know the song In My Life by The Beatles written by John Lennon?
hehehe..no but i will sure listen it!!!
well that's gud,leaving upon the past has to be needed.
well maybe because the First Love was pure, maybe we cry because we rememeber how naive we were and we wish we'd be again like that, maybe we cry because we suffered from our First Love, and yet, we'd want to re-live what happend then
I can't forget my first love until now that I have my own family. Sometimes I imagine him and ask myself what will I do if i saw him, how my feelings would be.
that's really sad to hear,but yes you moved on in ur life that's the best part u did!!!
i hope for the best for ur future!!!
its quite hard to start with u miss them every waking moment then u see them in ur sleep
you keep looking at ur cell hoping to get a txt or a call then u realize that aint gonna happen its one hellova phase to get through
well i think you are going to this at present,hope you get the best partner in future
well i can really remember my frist love but he hurt me a lot but still i kept hurtin for 1 year and i truly realized it was obsession anyways later i fell in love and this time it really feels love weve been datin for 7 months first we broke up for no reason but we kept in touch all the time then got back together and now we broke up cos he lost trust in me but actually i didnt lie to him and he thinks i lied now everytime we go out we act like we togeteher actually we forget were not together but when we talk on msn we talk like freinds and he reminds me all the time that theres no comin back.. :S but still its been a great relatinship and i truly HOPE to go back i need help
well all the best for your future!!!
No matter what..it isn't easy to forget your first love if it's a true one..
well said,so do u have any experience like this?
i dont knw bout love but the first person you are attracted to seems little hard to forget.it stays bright inside you even if you are settled.
well i don't have one for sure,it's just i wanted to know about other's love stories if they have!!
well you are still young,don't love this young ok!!!
yes.. I really don't totally remember him!
hehehe..sometimes we must have lyn!!!
awww i can never forget my first love..hihi though we didnt end up together, still it makes me smile just by remebering him
well i don't know about love but i still remember my enemy who made my life this horrible at my past?(atleast by hating her)
i believe it's really hard to just forget about the person who made you experience the first feeling of being in-love. however, you will always remember the boy/girl but the feeling you have for that person is not the same as before.
well may be it is true,hmmm...i don't have one to think..well imagining!!!
i think it is not possible. ur first love comes in ur mind when sumthing hapends which relates to him or her
when I opened my eyes my first love was my mom. When I grew up & my mom showed me my papa & I thought he is my first love. With times & the the changes in my hormone-body my first loves changed. I think I have several lives like a passing train with many compartments. In each life there is a first love. The compartment passes before you the first love is gone. the first love of youth I believe is a dream, an inrush of hormones influencing emotions.
yes probably u r correct!!!
If it was love ,, how can it be forgotten
really its true the first love can never ever be forgotten
wow , people agreed to me !!! thanks guys , for sharing the fire
yes of course may be siddhu got one...wondering????
well ravie OMG 123 comments nd tht too abt first love .. it really proved tht first love cant b forgotten bt did u find one interesting fact mny ppl here r first love failures tht really make sense tht first love cant b successful in most extent .. well im happy i don hav one.. nw tell me who was ur first love ravie????
my first love is my mom and dad that's all,i didn't find any person who is interesting!!!
I can say no. I still remember, I was in sixth grade when I first fell in love, and she was in fifth grade. They said its a puppy love though. But this love went through even after my high school days. And you know what? I only told her my feelings when I'm in 2nd year college. Well...that's all folks...the rest is full of mystery ahaha....
aha...kid time love story,interesting...next???
I will never forget him never, and its always hard to find some one who comes abouve him
that's really sad,but i hope for your best future!!!
I just like beanizer's contribution. The more you look back to the past the less you obtain in the future. So why can't you look forward to the goodies in the future hoping to catch the best of you true love.
that's really sweet of you but hopefully i didn't got one until now and i'm young for that.hehe...
Miss Ravali it depends and it is a decision of the persons involved.I already forgot my first love memories because I already found my match and that what matters.I did not forget her name but the memories and feelings are gone already.If the person is still crying because of his first love then he may not moved on and he still have feelings.
well you know,one cannot forget their loved one's that easily and i knew you just said that you forgotten the past but if you had forgotten then why you had the memories still??
that's what i say many these days are loosing their beautiful relationships due to some petty quarrels which make them to forget their loved ones!!!
Fisrt love second love and.......... I think all that doesn't matter what matters to me is the person for whom my heart is beating up and down for right now.
wow cool reply,ni hao geofrey!!!
The true love is actually for once. there is never any second third........That can be compromise only
if u can succeed in ur first love and marry that guy then i agree with you that you people love is great!!!
Hi Ravali, Good question. Plenty of answers, thoughts and expressions. This example would help. A new Ravali may has shown up here, but the first (not old) Ravali's image still appears in the mind.
Similarly, the first love will show up somehow and somewhere from nowhere. Have I answered, convinced or confused!!!!!!!
pretty confusing thiru but good thought!!!
I won't forget the name of my first love but the feelings definitely are gone.I am now happy with my relationship now so goodbye to my first love and hello to my true love.
Ravali I have a question for you, so are you single and ready to mingle? (lol)
hahah..i'm still young i think for loving a guy!!!
well that's gud you moved on!!!
well good question.........
i can never forget my first love and i think that no one can forget their first love if its true love...
yep you are right doll!!!
Fall in love and a few years later you will get your answer...
love is a divine thing and if you really a true person you would definitely have found your true love...
A true heart love never fails...
you don't know the meaning of love i think or you couldn't experienced one.
Love is unconditional and should be recieved and given in that way, so when that other person walk out of our life we cherish the good times we shared. that is how we move on in love
Love is forever and ever the one thing in love is what we think may not be same but what we feel will be the same,what we like may not be the same but we have will be the one which we deserve the same!!!
Love is everywhere just feel it ...
I totally second with that,the times spent together can never be forgotton,but one has to move on.....so I'm moving on with the memories ,at least those can't be snatched from me.
can i share my story.... 5 years ago since the last time i share my life with, im afraid i could fall again for the wrong person im really afraid coz i have already 2 falls!!! i hate to fall inlove again coz i felt so weak whenever my heart beats. i think my problem is finding the right 1 for me..is there any other way for us to find out whose going to be our partner for a lifetime? i doubt it! when i was younger i dreamd of my first love to be my last love but he end up cheating on me!!!!! now i still have fears of fallin inlove yet waiting for the right 1 to come.
It's natural that you are waiting someone to come...no one want to be alone...but the right one? If you want him/her you have to fall in love 10 or 100 times before...understand what the word love means for you and than...you'll find out who the right one is at the first sight.
This is what Granny told me...
love is everywhere may be the first love of yours a sad one or that love isn't your true love... may be your true love is before you and you cannot understand that...
cool ive learnd from you and your granny! sad to say but i still need to fall in love to 8 or 98 guys for me to find the right 1, at the age of 26! o.m.G!!! i need a rush.....hahaha just kidding God will lead the way for me.. thanks anyway!
nice.... for me, no, i didnt forget him and never will be, first love is first love, uhmmn, this is my first crush, first love, first beat of my heart, first date, first and mostly happened--dinner date =), first movie that weve watched together, first kisssss =), first pain wen we broke up =(...thats why hes really a part and never be forget!
well yes it will be...that's the sweetest memory which we cannot forget..because it's first...
Well i have forgotten my 1st love..... sje used to like sum1else. and moreever she ran and married dat guy. Wat a childish thing to do. well i thank god dat i came to know abt her early. i hate these kind of immature lovers.
well you loved her but she didn't but don't say im matured lovers because immaturity is not in their mind but in their heart so people might have did a mistake it's not their fault..heheh
dat is the most painful thing in life, the first lover that i has failed me
and i almost fall sick but by the grace of god i recover from this pain and agony but still now am still searching for one
don't be sad you will find your true love sooner...just don't give up finding one!!!
They say Love is blind but many a times first love is extremely blind. At tender age & immature mind the first love is extremely fragile & volatile, giving heart aches for a long time.
it is possible, because it took me 5 mins to remember my first love and i am not even sure as i am typing this reply
first will always be first, it's irreplaceable with 2nd, 3rd and so on. It's like a treasure depending on how you view that first love, it might be sad,funny,embarrassing or unforgettable. If you forget that, then, that's not the first time you feel love.