Biertjuh ∙ 18 Oct, 11
Just be yourself. Nothing much to say on that. Besides... you would be pretending to be someone that you are not. You won't be able to keep that up for a very long time.
Sometimes lots of people think the same about a person.
Christine was very friendly but when she started to date John she changed.
Everybody notices it and even say to each other that Christine is unbearable now and the nice girl she once was disappeared.
BUT: people say nothing to her.
I bet you are the one who will say:
"Come on Christine! What happened to you that you are changed and is not even saying "Hello" to people anymore?"
"Yes. You changed since you started dating John and turned into a complete different person. Everybody says so.
According to my experience those who think the same and agreed will.... say nothing or will try to change the subject.
You will be the troublemaker.
Is it the problem you refer to?
if so... you have to think if it is worthy to be the only one who speaks what everybody think.