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I think that loyalty has its strong points. But if you have friends that are making you feel uncomfortable by putting you in the middle of a situation- then those are some really rotten friends. Chances are that regardless of whose side you are on, your own friendship rating will go down a mark. One will think that you don't like them- the other will think that they can pressure you into anything. Do yourself a favor and stay out of it. The only one you have to worry about or please is you. Be the friend that is above reproach. Be the wise one.
Your family should not be putting you in the middle. That's not right. But who is living your life? You? Or your family? Take care of yourself first. Let them handle their own problems.
remember that you cannot please everybody.. i think that problem comes within your family.. well.. i suggest that you talk things out to them.. tell them the reasons why you don't like that.. why you want this.. let them take a peek into your mind.. but do it on a nice manner.. not bragging things.. i believe that is a mature and peaceful way to solve your problem..
family and friends ,to keep these things meaning full ,you have to make sacrifices ,once and always ..these relations owe themselves to each and every individual who have to think alike ,even if it hurts,,because if every one started thinking about his or her own interests..relations make no sense at all... its your right to think better for yourself and family and friends collectively ...its good in long run