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How to comfort???

Sudheera says 794 days ago

How can we comfort people who are in distress and trouble and are been under the torture???

User Replies (40)

Beanizer says 794 days ago

under torture??????
comfort...i cant imagine really

Bella says 794 days ago

hmmm good question sudhi!! bt i really dunno...coz most of the tym m d 1 whuz been tortured by ppl!!!

Sudheera says 794 days ago

nonono i mean some people hav been harassed then how can we comfort them in future???

Gurpreet says 794 days ago

people might not agree with me here

but visiting religious place helps a lot

Bella says 794 days ago

yes i agree with gurpeet to some extent.....it does feel good n calm....

Sudheera says 794 days ago

haaaaaa i agree....

Sudheera says 794 days ago

bt anymore....

Beanizer says 794 days ago

right..

or with psychologists' help..

Sudheera says 794 days ago

bt wat if the person is scared to talk ormeet anyone???

Beanizer says 794 days ago

ahmmm..kill him

Gurpreet says 794 days ago

beanizer deserves applaud here

Sudheera says 794 days ago

hmm lolypop didn't expect this...k... i don't agree wit ur answer and u r a gud person wat made you say this???

Sudheera says 794 days ago

no gurpreet life is precious can't kill anyone like tht...there is always scope for better 2marrow....

Beanizer says 794 days ago

coz it's the most comforting way to take away his fears

Gurpreet says 794 days ago

ya ya .child of god you are and me too

no dont kill that person

if its mental then only way is to divert the mind ,how ,that depends on that persons identity

if its physical i cant help ,

Beanizer says 794 days ago

sudhi, the experts know how to deal with this kind of behavior..maybe that man needs therapy..not just a comfort from anyone..

Sudheera says 794 days ago

no.....comfort can change people bt donno hw bt it can...

Gurpreet says 794 days ago

what is comfort

it depends on circumstances .type of torture or the reason that caused him to be demented ,that will decide the type of comfort .bring out the reasons of pain and then act appropriately ,cant genralize

Sudheera says 794 days ago

comfort is love and affection towards tht person... umeed par duniya kayam hai na ...

Gurpreet says 794 days ago

love and affection is itself one reason of torture
umeed bhi to dard deti hai

Sudheera says 794 days ago

nahi yaar vo nahi dethi hai... acha talk kal karaynge raat bahut hogayi...so continue....

Gurpreet says 794 days ago

right ,paused

Sudheera says 793 days ago

start. ah..love and affection can change anything thts the reason we r called the humans if not then y will we cry seeing some person in pain and agony...

Gurpreet says 793 days ago

dard ta saarean nu hunda yaa ! i mean every being alive feels pain and cries .humans are not the only one who suffer the agony ...

love and affection is important yet its the same very reason for pain !!!

Sudheera says 793 days ago

ya i agree tht evry living creature feels pain and pain can b suppressed by love and affection....vo kahte haina pyar se dardh ko metadho...or dardh se dardh ko metadho....

Jolly Princess says 791 days ago

Give the person money to consult a shink. ^_^

Sudheera says 791 days ago

some thing we can't buy with money...

Thiruselvam K says 790 days ago

Sudheera says 3 days ago
nahi yaar vo nahi dethi hai... acha talk kal karaynge raat bahut hogayi...so continue....
How about the ENGLISH version. TQ

Sudheera says 790 days ago

u say......if u converted it then u'll b awarded the intelligent blogger...lol...

Thiruselvam K says 790 days ago

People in distress; people in trouble and people under torture are all 3 different groups. What distress? What trouble? What torture?
If in distress as a result of losing out in love or a loved one has passed away, the nearest and dearest can keep company; be of help; some errands and show that he or she is never alone. If occasion warrants, get that person along with you to help someone else.
If in trouble, stay away and do not get legally tangled with that party. If it is the kind of trouble where you can lend a hand and save, go ahead. In lending your hand, keep your head and thoughts above troubled waters, and do not get dragged and drowned as well.
If under torture, as a wife stuck to a wife beater or a child being victim of parental molesting, get the authorities concerned or the welfare to step in.
(You see the distress, trouble and torture I have just gone through with this reply.)

Sudheera says 790 days ago

hmmm nice reply and thanx.....

Angelina says 790 days ago

How about a bottle of Jack?

Ravleen says 790 days ago

UHHHH we can uhhh, okay I know this is serious but it's HARD!!!!!

Sudheera says 789 days ago

nothing is hard if u do it with a pure mind......

Tryant says 775 days ago

I dont know cuz i never met such person in my life uptil now.well if i met such person i would keep him happy and make him forget all the mischaps and worries

Sudheera says 775 days ago

ehehehe u haV TO SAY!!!!!!!!!

Kim Realubit says 775 days ago

When a distressed friend comes to me for help,I usually reassure the person to recall his or her past accomplishments.In that way,my friend can take pride in what he or she has achieved in the past. I boost the confidence in my ailing friend by making mention of how great life has been in the past and how he or she can relive it all over again and make it more wonderful.

Sudheera says 775 days ago

hey tht person will b vry lucky!!!!!!!!!

Mulan says 775 days ago

Torture? Physical torture? Oh well it won't matter..
I'd be a friend . meaning - I'll buy that person a gun.. take him/her to a shooting practice.... :)

Sudheera says 774 days ago

oh thts kind of crazy idea!!!!!!!!

What would you say?