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How to get over your sadness?
Wabbit says 107 days ago
How to survive a break down from a lost of a close family?
I just lost my gramps, been crying whole night and now I got a pair of double panda eye bags :(
I just lost my gramps, been crying whole night and now I got a pair of double panda eye bags :(
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Wabbit says 107 days ago
Thanks Iforgotmyusername. Maybe my gamer BF busy with his game over my sadness make things worse for me. I really miss my gramps and rushing back tomorrow morning. Normally I'm not the type that will put on make up but guess it's really needed for the next few days :(
Dustzilla says 107 days ago
sorry to hear about your gramps, I lost mine too a few years back. One of the thing I did to move on was, thinking that my gramps was happy wherever he was, death is not necessarily the end of everything, it is sometimes a start of new things to come, when someone leaves there is always someone that will come back.
Clandestine says 104 days ago
Here's my say on your question. There is NO way that you can evade pain. I lost my entire family 14 years ago but the sadness is still very much prevalent. Sure you will survive but the pain of losing a loved one will forever be there, as time goes by it gets more painful specially when you go through problems and struggles, NEVER EVER attempt to forget them, just keep their memories stored in your heart, That will help you survive the sadness that you will feel each time you yearn for their presence.....
Siddi says 103 days ago
sorry to hear that
but its a part of life...nothing is permanent down here!
what i suggest is watch a few motivating movies and move on...
there aren't any other options either
and visiting my blog may help u
its just something u can't create a difference to and neither is the person gonna be back by crying!
but its a part of life...nothing is permanent down here!
what i suggest is watch a few motivating movies and move on...
there aren't any other options either
and visiting my blog may help u
its just something u can't create a difference to and neither is the person gonna be back by crying!
Wabbit says 102 days ago
cry is due to the sense of lost, knowing that the person you love is mot coming back. regret is that future you won't be able to share your joy and pain with him in person
Saxinsam says 97 days ago
Sorry for your loss.
Lost my mother ten years ago and not a day goes by that I wish she wasn't hear to see her grandkids. I talk to them about her all the time reminding them what a magnificent person she was...it's my way of processing I guess. Just make sure you grieve and don't sweep any emotions under the rug...crying is good. You'll see gramps one day again and one day all the sadness in this world will be made untrue.
Lost my mother ten years ago and not a day goes by that I wish she wasn't hear to see her grandkids. I talk to them about her all the time reminding them what a magnificent person she was...it's my way of processing I guess. Just make sure you grieve and don't sweep any emotions under the rug...crying is good. You'll see gramps one day again and one day all the sadness in this world will be made untrue.
Joshuacintron says 96 days ago
I only know of one source, God. The world is pain, all its inhabitants are mere reflections of what's to come. Words cannot console your hurt, although all who respond to you may try.
To celebrate rather than mourn is I believe the best thing you can do. Again, the gaping hole left in your soul will never be filled. I pray you can find strength in the one, and just know that your "gramps" is in heaven, smiling down on you. ~God bless, www.joshuacintron.me
To celebrate rather than mourn is I believe the best thing you can do. Again, the gaping hole left in your soul will never be filled. I pray you can find strength in the one, and just know that your "gramps" is in heaven, smiling down on you. ~God bless, www.joshuacintron.me
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Iforgotmyusername says 107 days ago
Sorry to hear about your Gramps. My wife lost her Dad recently. Grief is very personal and everyone works through it in their own way and in their own time. Don't feel pressured to conform to any particular pattern or timescale - grieve in your own way. Your tears actually testify to your love and tears that spring from love will help bring healing, so your panda eye bags are are a very positive thing!
God bless you.