Hello ,
im going through a lot in life, going through divorce, picking my life and trying endeavor a lot of life hurdles I never knew I would face. Then came a boyfriend who I revolve my world so the ONLY one I actually cling to. Now how will you react if he suddenly starts ignoring you yet you see him so active with others. He makes you fall in love and and promise you things and then he nonchalantly ignores you , OUT OF NOWHERE. How will you guys take it?
So maybe he can just be honest and say it! It's not asking that much of a person, is it? :)
Really sorry to hear you are going through a lot right now.
As for the boyfriend, talk to him! I would like to have an answer than to have me put into the dark for no reason, but you need to be strong and move on, you deserve someone who appreciates and loves you back not someone who ignores you like that!
He is probably facing a problem that is related to you.
E.g. There's this guy who ignores his girlfriend and actively looks for more ways to make money because he wants to marry her with a big wedding but he can't do that if he spends most of his time with her.
I cannot even begin to imagine how you must feel so just wanted to send you positive wishes!! Relationships at the best of times can be challenging, perhaps he feels he can't deal with the excess baggage aka divorce/ex-husband ... maybe he's not ready to commit, there could be so many reasons. I know he might make you feel good right now, but you need time just by yourself! Rediscover you, make new friends, find new hobbies ... learn to love yourself and be happy by just being with you. Good Luck x
Hi everyone,
First pardon the semi-rant question. But I know everyone here are bloggers and would be a great topic to discuss as a personal blog, insight or any of that.
Second, well the truth came out and I guess I could close this topic saying his true colors came out, the insults and attacks to me and friends, I guess that is the final nail.
Sincerely,
Raven Rae
I particularly enjoy posts that has nothing to do with traffic etc. LoL ;) so no problem! At least you have the truth, even if it's not something you wanted, the truth is better than lies. Good Luck!
Personally I agree with Nikki and some others. Action causes reaction but choose a reaction contrary to what he may be expecting. If he does care then it will get his attention. if he does not, then no loss to you. move on , he wasn't worth it. YOU ARE !
