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I F YOUR HUSBAND SAYS:STOP CHAT WITH BLOGGERS...WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
Jazmine says 580 days ago
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LADIES,IF YOUR HUSBAND SAYS:STOP CHAT WITH BLOGGERS...WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
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Jolly Princess says 580 days ago
I agree. As a wife and mother you should know your priorities. I own my time, however I know my priorities. If I have to set aside bloggers.com in lieu of the most important thing to do. I do it. I know my blogger friends could wait.
I believed you have to ask your husband the reason for the restrictions. If a comprise agreement could be settled, then everybody will be happy. :)
I believed you have to ask your husband the reason for the restrictions. If a comprise agreement could be settled, then everybody will be happy. :)
Thiruselvam K says 580 days ago
Doctor SaifZahid, would that be a classic example of "paediatric thinking!"
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Thiruselvam K says 580 days ago
This is a difficult situation. Cian and Jolly are right. When ALL IS DONE (it will never all be done)and TIME IS AVAILABLE (which wife has available time for HERSELF), some blogging and TALKS would not hurt.
The husband might be a computer illiterate or even have a disgust for computers and could be thinking she is wasting time. Therefore this reaction.
The wife has to reason. Use time smartly. Do not be addicted to this "screen". Lastly Best of luck.
The husband might be a computer illiterate or even have a disgust for computers and could be thinking she is wasting time. Therefore this reaction.
The wife has to reason. Use time smartly. Do not be addicted to this "screen". Lastly Best of luck.
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Rupak says 574 days ago
simply change ur husband.... :)
Blog iz more important...husbands may come n go...
Blog iz more important...husbands may come n go...
Healthit Up For YOU says 572 days ago
Its all about balance.... If one is always on computer then I can see why mate may ask them to please stop.... I agree with Cian, that if all things are done and everyone is content and happy then, this is a good time to visit online friends for your break. :) Communication is the key, and to be willing to compromise will make both parties happy. :)
Deevincent says 567 days ago
My husband would not allow us to get the Internet and once he said no, I never brought the subject up again. I tried my best to maintain contact with snail mail, and my good friends still wrote to me despite the fact they wished we could talk on the computer. I lost contact with others, but I figure that if they didn't want to take the extra time to write, they were not good friends anyway. My husband died 4 months ago and here I am. I just set up my blog an hour ago. Nice to meet you all.
Jazmine says 567 days ago
ohhh...my hearty condolence..deevincent..
let us make a good friendship...
let us make a good friendship...
Tim Blogger says 567 days ago
If two people are in love can you dictate how each other should choose to do with their lives? If someone said that to me I would honestly say stop speaking to me like I'm a child.
What makes him more informed than you to make that decision? The internet is a right and he should respect what you enjoy doing. Don't let other people dictate what you do with your life. That's my opinion...
What makes him more informed than you to make that decision? The internet is a right and he should respect what you enjoy doing. Don't let other people dictate what you do with your life. That's my opinion...
Bruno Rodrigues says 567 days ago
The internet is not a right. You have to pay for it. It's a privilege. What makes him more informed is that he's her husband and you have no idea of their circumstances.
Jazmine says 567 days ago
HI Mr bruno,
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Every one have their own opinion..
Tim gave his comment.thats all...
i think he is a teenager,I read his blog..good work,he did..
thanks bruno...
(once again see}
Every one have their own opinion..
Tim gave his comment.thats all...
i think he is a teenager,I read his blog..good work,he did..
thanks bruno...
Bruno Rodrigues says 566 days ago
He gave his, and I gave mine. That's all. Opinion does not trump fact. The fact is, the internet is not a right.
Tim Blogger says 566 days ago
In developed countries where people rely on the internet you can't just take it away from them. In the UK the government is giving everyone basic internet over the coming years, making it a right, and has also now been made into a necessity for people to have according to government standards.
People now depend on it so much it has become a right. The UK government see it that way and so do many other people. This would suggest it is a right, or should be, in other places. That's why I said it...
People now depend on it so much it has become a right. The UK government see it that way and so do many other people. This would suggest it is a right, or should be, in other places. That's why I said it...
Bruno Rodrigues says 566 days ago
In the coming years. In other words, its not a right yet. On top of that, you need a portal like a PC, phone, etc. Those are not rights either. If it happens, I'll agree that it's a right.
Tim Blogger says 566 days ago
and I agree with you on I don't know the situation but the question was. What would you do and that was what I would do. I wasn't trying to tell Jazmine what to do.
Bruno Rodrigues says 566 days ago
The part about what you would do was fine. I have no argument there. It was your opinion of the husband that I was referring to. While you are, of course, entitled to it, I think it's still a bit misinformed. None of us know what led the husband to make such a demand. That's why I don't think we should comment badly on him.
Jazmine says 566 days ago
The discussion is on chatting.. not on the usage of internet.... and even the usage of internet there are cybercrimes and cybercell formed as a part of criminal investigations..... so we cannot jus say.. "internet is the right of a person and it is a straightforwrd thing..."
Jyotsna says 564 days ago
If he is not allowing you to chat then ask him the reason. I think, he is just jealous, suspicious, has no trust in you, insecure like most of indian men are ! Either u hv to stop chating by killing your happiness or u continue with what make you happy !
Tim Blogger says 563 days ago
People still kill each other with guns but you still have the right to own one in some countries? People still spread hate but everyone has the right to free speech?
Tim Blogger says 562 days ago
The second amendment says there is the right to keep and bear arms. We decide the difference and the UK has decided it is a right.
Bruno Rodrigues says 562 days ago
Regardless of the Constitution's second amendment, you still need a license to own a gun. That means it's a privilege. Kind of like driving. In the UK, the firearms amendment of 1997 made almost all handguns illegal for private ownership. I used to hunt with my dad and go clay shooting. While I think it should be a right, it technically is not. The government can revoke your license and make ownership of certain weapons illegal.
Prriti says 194 days ago
I will definately advice my husband to start doing the same
But in real he wants meto blog
But in real he wants meto blog
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