GitaristAko
I Love her more than a bestfriend. but im afraid to show her that.. what should i treasure most? my love for him, or our friendship?
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I Love her, but shes my bestfriend. Love or Friendship?
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Beanizer ∙ 18 Jan, 10
haha..im caught in the same situation..try 2 figure out if she feels the same way. I believe "no guts, no glory"..but in some cases where great things (like friendship) are the risks, it's still better to play safe than regretting the careless move..
you can still love her silently though,,maybe in that way she'll love you more than a friend too..hmmmm..just take precautions:) Gudluck!
Beanizer ∙ 18 Jan, 10
that's sad..don't worry gurpreet..you'll find the perfect match soon..have faith:)
Gurpreet ∙ 18 Jan, 10
aaa..i am not leaving her for any one.till i talk to her again,,lol,,,anyway thanks friend
Pardha ∙ 18 Jan, 10
hel man ..how do we know if she fels da same way .. i'm having a hard time figuring it out !! :(
GitaristAko ∙ 18 Jan, 10
yeah..its hard to predct how she feels towards me.. if i try and she dosnt feel the same thing, maybe our friendship will end..
shaine ∙ 19 Jan, 10
why think the end of the story without writing the first chapter? weh hehe, just using my writer instincts,. girls are not like that we are flattered when guys admires us as we are. ( i believe she is just being so "maarte" if she will end ur frendship). tell her it wud be fine if she dont feel d same ur prohibiting urself from feeling the best feeling of all if ul imprison urself to those thinkng. say it aloud. ur a guy aren't u? but before u do so, make sure rflect many times if u rily LOVE her or just LIKE her. it is 2 diff. things.
GitaristAko ∙ 20 Jan, 10
Thnks Shaine... Maybe Ill Just Watch "Pano na kaya".. Cguro pareho kmi ng situation.. =)
GitaristAko ∙ 20 Jan, 10
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Healthit up for YOU ∙ 30 Jun, 10
Let her know.... this is just what she may be long waiting for :) I married my best friend, and I tell you this is the most wonderful relationship.... because you may hurt you mate, but when you marry your best friend it is different... because you not only hurt your love, but your best friend as well (double whammy). Therefore you try harder, and the relationship endures forever....
Sudheera ∙ 30 Jun, 10
hmmm... u can love ur bestfriend bt... friend turn lover!! so friendship is friendship nd love z love both cant b one!!!
Dyane ∙ 21 Nov, 10
I had a friend once in my high school!He wasn't a boy frnd or just a frnd!We were just xerox copy of me in thoughts &every words!When anyone asked him,who am I to him?He used to tell,complicated..she is more than a frnd & greater than a lover!
Well you are reminding me of him!We broke up?No!R we separated?No!But we didn't saw each other for 17 years!But he is still on my mind!As the bestest frnd of the world!Time changes a person,I'm scared!I don't want to see him changed!So I don't want to meet him!But I miss that boy!All the memories with him still makes me ponder& laugh!Last time we met had a fight!I was hurt& told him that after 50 years we are gonna meet!He refused,but agreed to see me after 25years!God knows when will we two meet?
I miss my frnd!He used to know me more than anyone ever did!Even when I used to get mad at him!Yes I'm stubborn type&sometimes too emotional! Everything is too much! Was that love?I'm still not sure!Gals are sometime just stay stupid forever!
Are you absolutely sure?Then what are you doing here?Why are you reading my boring writings ?Just wear the best dress from your closet ,buy a flower and tell her....Your love will not wait for you forever!Best of luck!
Sudhir Chauhan ∙ 22 Nov, 10
i do not think that this situation should be made so complicated. try to find out what she wants, and if she is not tht ok, then friendship is best and if their is some spark ont he otherside also - talk to her and propose.
Balqis ∙ 22 Nov, 10
If you have the gut to tell her, then it'll be love. If not, you remain as best friends, so friendship will it be. How long can you hold it when love's boiling inside you? I know it's a difficult situation to tell her cos she's your best friend. The choice is yours! :)
Lovely ∙ 22 Nov, 10
If she is your best friend, you should never keep anything in your mind hidden from her. Just tell it to her...not like proposing her... like just telling some of your normal feelings... If she feels the same for you, then both of you are blessed... If she doesn't, then she will surely understand your feelings as a best friend's feelings....
Toofan Singh ∙ 22 Nov, 10
frnd take care bcz If c treats u just as a frnd then its possible that c may reject ur frnship also its my view its not neccessry that there wil b d same.may b c like ur propsl.
Darren Francis ∙ 8 Dec, 10
Tough call. Follow your heart. I believe, that special someone should be both your best friend and soul mate.
Ane Fallarme ∙ 8 Dec, 10
Don't you know that the best relationships are based on friendships? I married my best friend and 10 years later, we're still the best of friends. :)
Andreadawn ∙ 13 Dec, 10
see if they like yu back have a friend or someone talk to her if they like yu then see where it goes if not then yu still have`em as a friend
A P Geofrey ∙ 13 Dec, 10
well the decision is yours if you ant to go fro friendship then go for it but if you want to go for love then go for love SIMPLE!!!!
Music Nerdery ∙ 14 Dec, 10
the 8 year long relationship that i am in now started from a friendship that began when we were 9 years old. i do believe our friendship before is why we are together now.
heres the thing about entering a relationship with ANYONE, especially your best friend. you need to be 100% clear about anything and EVERYTHING that you want out of this life, and your relationship. realize that people and things DO CHANGE over time. and understand that ALL relationships take REAL HARD WORK and commitment to being with each other. and honesty. 100000% honesty at all times.
hope that helps.
SMRITI SINHA ∙ 2 Aug, 11
i think....a good friendship at the end turn out into a new relation thats called love...there nothing wrong to love a best friend bcuz a best friend is the one with whom we share everything ....aand the u love u do the same things with them also...but ..still love is very very different feeling as compare as friendship...
Rockbabe ∙ 3 Aug, 11
Love duh ......
although it may destroy your ffriendship afterwarsds .. which is deffo sad !
Shana ∙ 8 Aug, 11
Why don't you try confessing to her? It's scary because she might reject that love but are you willing to go on just wondering if she has the same feelings for you? Hey, you never know but she might actually feel the same thing for you. If not, then at least you still told her that. And then ask her if you can still be friends. If you won't be able to tell her how you truly feel for her, you are most definitely going to regret it for the rest of your life. Just make sure that if you did confess and was rejected but managed to stay friends, don't act like an angry jerk about her boyfriend. She's going to feel awkward enough telling you about it (if she considers you her best friend, she might tell you, and it's not something she can hide from you anyway) considering that she knows how you feel about her. Oh, and by the way, if you did get rejected, I can think of three possibilities why. First, she just doesn't like you that way. Second, she may feel the same way but is scared of going out with you because she's scared that things would change between you two, for the worse that is. Third, she does love you romantically but is not aware of that yet.
Pushan ∙ 8 Aug, 11
I'm going through this trouble right now.I was his best frnd and he is in love with me ,when I'm not.Got to ask him .............Haha..............
Wanderer ∙ 1 Sep, 11
hmm... it is really a difficult question to answer. 'cause it all depends on the combined feelings of both of you. It is not a bad thing if a friend turns lover, but you need to take care before you move your next step. If your next step could put your friendship under risk, better stay away from proposing her 'cause friendship is really precious. once you lose trust in her view, it is almost impossible to gain again.
If she is very much closer to you, you could put your proposal in front of her. And don't force her to accept. Let her decide the whole thing and remind her that she is free to take any decision and you shall abide by it.
I wish you good luck with your Love and Friendship :)
Warren ∙ 2 Sep, 11
It's not worth destroying a friendship, especially if the guy didn't do anything wrong. Going behind your friend's back is never cool. Be careful cause that person might be playing you both!
Pinayramblings ∙ 18 Jan, 12
Look for signs first. Maybe you should tell her that you are about to tell a girl that you love her, then see how she reacts. If she acted excited for you and offered her help, then maybe she only sees you as a platonic friend. If she gets jealous and avoided you for a while, then that means she feels the same way about you.
JavabynataraJ ∙ 1 Feb, 12
Be carefull. Find the feelings with her friends. Know it then propose to her.
Lazyprophet ∙ 18 Mar, 12
don't rather than that i would say try to upgrade the friendship so it becomes lifelong. Can't agree with u.
Alice In Magicland ∙ 17 Mar, 12
ask her what does she want in her dreamboy, you're best friends, she'll share it to you. If you're like he wants her dremboy to be, then Love.
Otherwise Friendship
Lazyprophet ∙ 18 Mar, 12
dude don't think so much just ask her out,
i missed my chance while thinking those stupid things, i lost my best friend as well as love, since now she has her own life...
so grab the chance, best friends turn lover---- best combo buddy.
marley harris ∙ 7 weeks 1 day ago
I have a simular problem i love this girl her hair her personalty ect. And were best friends and i got brave and told her i loved her but i could tell she didnt like me and our friendship fell apart she avoided me when i tried to talk to her and i felt stupid so i asked her to just be friends and she hapily agreed but i was bumed because she said she was glad i did not like her so i have re-builded or relation ship as friends and shes always bumed if some spreads a rumor saying i like her so we remain best friends (sorry for the long story) to answer your qustion how well do you know him well he reject you and end the friend ship or will he love you back
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Kunwar ∙ 4 weeks 2 days ago
Men go and talk to her and share your feeling with her that may possible that she also have the same feeling for you and for the same reason she is not disclosing to you becoz that may be reason that she don't want to loose you.
Just go and express your self let love flow in the air.
GOOD LUCK :)
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