I've been watching RoadTrip Tv by Pastor Ru Dela Torre and then he asked the viewers this question. I was like.... Uhhhmmmm.... Uhhhmm.... Uhhhmmm.... Im quite uncertain with my answer. I just want to know your suggestions, comments or even advice. YEY!!! That'll be a big help, especially to girls like me!
its fine with me, there are times when us girls can be brave enough to be the first one to do the move, say start a conversation to a guy we like, things like that, sure there are people whom categorized us as a flirt but who the hell cares.
on my case i made the first move, I talked to this cute guy, asked him something and that started a very long conversation.
You will feel it in yourself if you are already crossing the borderline of being friendly, flirty or slut :)
Maybe, you can teach me how to do small talks that will eventually be a long conversation! :D hahaha Thank you!
small talks, hmm it depends on the situation, on my case we are at a seminar, then i asked him what he can say about the speakers topic, and then boom! we've been talking until the end of the seminar and the next day we became buddies :)
turn off? to start a converstion? well only if you started a stupid topic, or something in which the answer is so obvious, and the real turn off is pretending to be dumb when you are not, so make sure, if you are going to initiate the first move, you really have something to clarify or comment into..
Thanks for the advice Miss January! Well that sounds cool, I just have to work on my nerves I think. Hahaha.
The boy should make the first move.
Boys usually take advantages of girls that are aggressive.
They'll just make a fool out those girls.
I have that same thinking... But someone told me that theres nothing wrong as long as you know how to handle and do not over do it.
Of course - I kissed my hubs first! He's always been slower on the draw;)
Thanks for all your advice.. I guess now I know my options... :D have a great day everyone
really? coming from a pretty girl like you. well, OKAY... :D now I know
Hi well I'M not a girl!! but !! I have to say that It was my Girlfriend to make the first move !! and so far it have been our 8th year together ^^
wow! really??? 8 years... Your girlfriend is a brave one, isn't she? HOPE O COULD DO THAT SOMEDAY! hahahahahaha :D
SOMEDAY I CAN MAKE MY MOVE!!! hahaha SOMEDAY! (can you look at the calendar and tell me when is some DAY??) hahaha LOL
we , you, us ,we don't choose when or how we love ...love comes in all shapes, sizes and forms !! so its just a matter of time !! the problem is recognizing it !! :D
Of course its okay for a girl to make the first move. What is this 1850? I think one of the most misunderstood ideas is how women need to communicate their intentions and thoughts more explicitly instead of hoping that men read their minds.
Well- because us- filipinas we were taught different values, but for heaven's sake we are now in the 21st century, so I think it's okay to do the first move! Just don't use the cheesy lines like-- Hi, you look familiar, are you by any chance my future boyfriend?" that's tacky!! :)
Just be friendly, and compliment the guy, if he's wearing a nice top or something, or you can be honest and say " I like you, I think you're cute" if he says, "I'm sorry you're not my type" then you can tell him, You're only kidding on! :)
hey, i think its very ok for a girl to make the first move. it shouldnt be the guy all the time and i believe the situation matters aswell. it doesnt make the girl any lesser or not appreciated. its baically doing whatever makes you happy as a woman.
Its not so much of a big deal if a girl makes the first move. The only problem with this option is that the guy may take the girl for granted-----> This is why it is not advisable 4 a girl to make the first move. -------------->
I think it's okay for a girl to make the first move, I made the first move with my boyfriend (whom I've been with for nearly 2 years), and I'm happy.
It does depend on how you go about it though, and what kind of guy you're speaking to :)
WOW!!! Thanks for all of your comments, suggestions or opinions! Learned a lot from you guys!
