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is sucide the answer??
Maryia says 876 days ago
is suicide the solution to depression, rough n tough life, a broken heart? what to do when there's no wish to live! just want to die! what to do when u feel that u dont have a reason to live n dont have anything to live for? really hopeless n need help! cant see any way n dont have any choice! abt suicide-forbidden in certain religions! so......can i have any other choices???
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Sandy says 876 days ago
hii
there is another way to live ur life...
just leave that way wo forced u for suicide....and focus on ur future with some new target.....which may b ur boy frnd,study nad other....
there is another way to live ur life...
just leave that way wo forced u for suicide....and focus on ur future with some new target.....which may b ur boy frnd,study nad other....
Abulfauzi says 876 days ago
Thats the last choice girl, every human being have his/her own choice to get back for their life, and one thing we must remember that the problem are life bcause we're lived and we're not life for the problem same as we need food for our life but we're not lived for the food. We lived for solve the problem. are you agree with me..??
Arindam says 875 days ago
No, suicide never be the answer.
It is the almighty God, who sent us in this world to do something. He gave us some kind of a duty before sending us here and gave an order not to be back before completing this duty. We just can't leave... of course there would be many difficulties, many ups and down in your life. But we should have the power within us to face these. We really enjoy the happiness and achievements in our life. But when the situation of crisis and difficulties comes we always try to get out of this situation asap by any means. We shouldn't leave from any kind of difficult situation... we can do anything if we have the self belief to do that. We should try to overcome the situations and leave rest to God. God is the ultimate authority... God sent us here... God will call us back when time comes.
It is the almighty God, who sent us in this world to do something. He gave us some kind of a duty before sending us here and gave an order not to be back before completing this duty. We just can't leave... of course there would be many difficulties, many ups and down in your life. But we should have the power within us to face these. We really enjoy the happiness and achievements in our life. But when the situation of crisis and difficulties comes we always try to get out of this situation asap by any means. We shouldn't leave from any kind of difficult situation... we can do anything if we have the self belief to do that. We should try to overcome the situations and leave rest to God. God is the ultimate authority... God sent us here... God will call us back when time comes.
Angelina says 875 days ago
Take the most important person in your life- the one whom you love the most- and then imagine that persons sadness and dispair. Imagine that persons heart breaking into a billion pieces because of you. If you could do that to another soul- then perhaps that is the answer.
Gurpreet says 875 days ago
suicide is human invented stuff..if evolution had to occur it was made this way,,,our body feels intense pain when we try to hurt ourselves ..every one is depressed ,if for extreme reasons people started going down ,half of the world would have been blacked out ..try to suicide when your are too happy for you know circumstances change ,,so wish to die a happy life ,,hell yeahh ,,try that ,,just kidding..
Shubh says 875 days ago
no no no,suicide is fucking crazy thing that we mst neva try,i hv tried it and cn tell u plz do nt get into all this fucking thing. u luk so pretty, dnt try dis plz..u may b heart broken but jus think of them whose hearts r attached wid u, cn u break there heart.
Maryia says 873 days ago
cheee thnx for the compliment so much!!!
n thnx for the response! convincing....... :)
n thnx for the response! convincing....... :)
Madhu says 873 days ago
The question u provided here is about the peak stage in ones life.....but apart from that there will be the final solution called HOPE.so one should never leave their HOPE in themself.
Behindyoureyes says 872 days ago
if suicides the answer maybe i had been dead a long long time ago....... life still great pain is just a part of it :)
Vilas says 872 days ago
suicide is not the solution for anything.one has to be mentally strong to face pressure situations in life.
Marrie says 872 days ago
Suicide...I don't think so. It doesn't help anyone to be better or something...You just hurt yourself and other people.
Sohan says 817 days ago
if you want to suicide, go & do it... Yeah, go & do it but you won't get peace even if you die. Someone up there has given a gift to you, a gift called life.Live it the way, the way you wanna live it, the way you wanna see it, the way you wanna move it.. Life is as beautiful as your eyes are able to look at it. It is all in your outlook... Gosh!! I've written so much. Don't take me wrong but I'm not a philosopher.... "Anyway, may I have your number....??You are a beauty. Would you mind if i come into your life."
If this can make you smile, you will find the reason to live....
bye..
If this can make you smile, you will find the reason to live....
bye..
Maryia says 816 days ago
lol...cheee thnx :-) so nice of u! n thank u so much! actually i realizd how much this life is important to me...everyones got good n bad things in life, jus that i ws lookin at the bad thngs only bt niw i have changed-some bcz of my thinkin n some bcz of u guys to thanks alot.........:-)
Ravali says 817 days ago
hey girl do you think you are the only person who got worries there are many people including myself having many and lot more troubles so suicide isn't a good decision,worries come and go but not the life gal!!!!
Maryia says 816 days ago
thanks i no everyons got worries...actually i wasnt goin to suicide or somthn...jus u no..... so thanks anywys! :-)
Puran Sharma says 570 days ago
Maryia I am happy that u have quit suicide. Think life beautiful n it becomes so. Thought becomes thing. This is law of attraction. Think n feel good n u attract good things in life.
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Puran Sharma says 570 days ago
Think good n same will happen. Same is true 4 bad thoughts 2. So watch ur thought. Bless u.
Renata says 570 days ago
Suicide is a permanent solution for a temporary problem. probably great things will happen to you in a year or two, too bad you won't be here so see that, cause you choose to die, and no one can bring you back.are you just curious how your life will be if you choose to live?
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Sachin Varde Borkar says 570 days ago
Suicide is an act of cowrdice. Pump in the self confidence in your system and be ready to face this BIG BAD WOLFY WORLD & prove yourself. Learn to LOVE your life which is given by GOD so that you can experience the Good & Bad side of life as well as this Planet EARTH. AND LIFE IS NOT AT ALL BAD. SCRAP THE WORD SUICIDE from your BRAIN'S DICTIONARY. TAKE CARE, BE GOOD & HELP OTHERS.
Michael Clyde says 564 days ago
Suicide is never the solution. No matter how low things get or how shut off you may feel, you're never alone in this world. It's like the end of The Police's Message In A Bottle:
Walked out this morning I don't believe what I saw
A hundred billion bottles washed upon the shore
Seems I'm not alone in being alone
A hundred billion castaways looking for a home.
http://valleyguyobservations.blogspot.com
Walked out this morning I don't believe what I saw
A hundred billion bottles washed upon the shore
Seems I'm not alone in being alone
A hundred billion castaways looking for a home.
http://valleyguyobservations.blogspot.com
Mujahid says 564 days ago
sucide taker person have the highest decesion power.if he turned the direction that in positive sense,he can acheive anything.
Gingy says 563 days ago
Yes suicide is an answer, but its just the easy way out for pussies who pity themselves to much, if you think about killing yourself how about instead quit feeling sorry for your dumbass
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Independentlady says 563 days ago
What kind of suicide are you talking about in here? is it only about killing one's body or taking away one's life? please take note that there are other kinds of suicide which we have taken for granted of... that without you knowing , you are actually killing yourself slowly....
suicide of mind ( means you declare yourself crazy and you choose to live in "your own world" ) and do crazy things that a normal person doesn't
it's like giving up during difficult times when you think you are all alone and you choose to create a world where you can have those ideal personalities and friends you wish to have in your life...
suicide of the heart ( it's all but choosing to be so hard on things and never entertain positive vibes it means you'll nourish your heart with this pathetic stupidity of negative vibes and all you could see is darkness.. and confusion and anger and other thoughts that could block your heart from loving yourself and other people
social suicide ( you are blocking yourself from the help and love of other people around you ) tsk tsk pathetic sooo pathetic
academic suicide ( since you are having hard time with yourself, and other factors such as love life,family life, friends life you tend to ignore and block yourself from the academe and choose to kill the idea of being educated )
financial suicide ( you tend to waste money over useless pathetic things and leave you with nothing to spend )
suicide of time ( you kill time by not doing something fruitful to level up your status and be of-service to other people especially to your family who really loves you so much- quality time is the best time with other people and if you will block it's way then your killing time )
spiritual suicide ( blocking God and killing HIm in your life... tsk..tsk... )
physical suicide ( makes suicide very short and leaves a stupid mark on your niche / tomb ) and people would not feel sorry for you and for what you did but they would feel sorry for what could have been the other solutions that you should have applied in your self-declared pathetic and hopeless life....
suicide lies on a very thin line that separates a problem and a solution.. see it's not the end but it is only a part of problem-solution thing....
so i can say that it's problem-suicidal-solution situation that every one of us is experiencing...
FOR ME, suicide is not only the taking one's life away from him/her literally
suicide is a decision. a choice..
so if you want to commit suicide make a choice first from the list i have stated above...
make a wise choice
or do nothing at all :)
unless you see yourself in a win-win solution.. you wont see the suicidal situation between the problem and the solution coz you'll just see that thought as a dust before your eyes and all you have to do is to step it on and brush it off your life...
and make yourself PART of the Solution :)
i have made a choice that's why i am able to write to you now :)
i love you guyz!!
God bless
love,
Independentlady
suicide of mind ( means you declare yourself crazy and you choose to live in "your own world" ) and do crazy things that a normal person doesn't
it's like giving up during difficult times when you think you are all alone and you choose to create a world where you can have those ideal personalities and friends you wish to have in your life...
suicide of the heart ( it's all but choosing to be so hard on things and never entertain positive vibes it means you'll nourish your heart with this pathetic stupidity of negative vibes and all you could see is darkness.. and confusion and anger and other thoughts that could block your heart from loving yourself and other people
social suicide ( you are blocking yourself from the help and love of other people around you ) tsk tsk pathetic sooo pathetic
academic suicide ( since you are having hard time with yourself, and other factors such as love life,family life, friends life you tend to ignore and block yourself from the academe and choose to kill the idea of being educated )
financial suicide ( you tend to waste money over useless pathetic things and leave you with nothing to spend )
suicide of time ( you kill time by not doing something fruitful to level up your status and be of-service to other people especially to your family who really loves you so much- quality time is the best time with other people and if you will block it's way then your killing time )
spiritual suicide ( blocking God and killing HIm in your life... tsk..tsk... )
physical suicide ( makes suicide very short and leaves a stupid mark on your niche / tomb ) and people would not feel sorry for you and for what you did but they would feel sorry for what could have been the other solutions that you should have applied in your self-declared pathetic and hopeless life....
suicide lies on a very thin line that separates a problem and a solution.. see it's not the end but it is only a part of problem-solution thing....
so i can say that it's problem-suicidal-solution situation that every one of us is experiencing...
FOR ME, suicide is not only the taking one's life away from him/her literally
suicide is a decision. a choice..
so if you want to commit suicide make a choice first from the list i have stated above...
make a wise choice
or do nothing at all :)
unless you see yourself in a win-win solution.. you wont see the suicidal situation between the problem and the solution coz you'll just see that thought as a dust before your eyes and all you have to do is to step it on and brush it off your life...
and make yourself PART of the Solution :)
i have made a choice that's why i am able to write to you now :)
i love you guyz!!
God bless
love,
Independentlady
Moktadir Al Nahid says 534 days ago
{unless you see yourself in a win-win solution.. you wont see the suicidal situation} I get the answer. I was also a victim of such kind of stupid depression. Believe me Just after reading u, unconsciously u help me to think from different point of view. Thanks a Lot.
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KlashingColors says 537 days ago
Never The answer. We were given the magnificent opportunity to live, and i think it would be completely selfish to throw that all away for whatever reason.
No situation is too much to handle. Though life has its questioning obstacles and struggles, suicide is NEVER worth it :)
No situation is too much to handle. Though life has its questioning obstacles and struggles, suicide is NEVER worth it :)
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KlashingColors says 537 days ago
HOWEVER... some people choose to do alternatives like cutting,drinking,smoking, etc. Though, I AM NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES encouraging you to do those things. I would definitely encourage you to Kick Suicide out of your mind.
Sabita says 537 days ago
if u think thats not an answer ,not solution toooooo.
we came to this world for certain purpose.do that and we leave happily the earth.....but sucide its an waste of thinking.
we came to this world for certain purpose.do that and we leave happily the earth.....but sucide its an waste of thinking.
ILoveshukla says 537 days ago
I heard about a term called ''Mercy Killer''.When someone is suffering from some hard disease and there is nothing to do but to suffer the extreme pain and waiting for the death.I support their suicide.I support Mercy Killers.
Dyane says 537 days ago
Suicide is neither a question nor an answer!Its a decision taken by a person who has no faith,no hopes left or may be doesn't have the guts to see what happens next!Life is full of surprises!It takes a moment for a change of situation!I'll not suggest but its my opinion to take some time!We don't live only for us or we don't live only for others too!There is always an alternative solution of a thing!We must see that too! After all what is after life,we don't really know! What if we find out thats more horrible! So I believe that we should feel happy for what we are and what we have ! Who knows situations can be worst than present in future !
Mr High Sky says 537 days ago
Oh, I remember the time when I used to think of such decisions, I had no joy in my life. But I believed in one think that noting is permanent, one day everything ends, so I hoped that may be my problems would end soon, I would find a person who would care for me, and I just waited and waited and then all of a sudden my life changed, though just a little bit, but it's better than it was.
So basically here I want to say that sometimes we want things but we don't know whether it will be good for us to have it now or later, so the question is who knows, than I found my answer ALLAH knows better, and I just belied it blindly, I was not seeing any way out from my problem, so I just let the time pass.
I think you are a Muslim and you know better that suicide is "haraam" I can give you a lot of reasons if you want you.
Magar ik cheez yaad rakhiye ga keh we don't know our lives better than our creator.
So basically here I want to say that sometimes we want things but we don't know whether it will be good for us to have it now or later, so the question is who knows, than I found my answer ALLAH knows better, and I just belied it blindly, I was not seeing any way out from my problem, so I just let the time pass.
I think you are a Muslim and you know better that suicide is "haraam" I can give you a lot of reasons if you want you.
Magar ik cheez yaad rakhiye ga keh we don't know our lives better than our creator.
Mehdi Qazi says 537 days ago
its nothing but the clear defeat..... Suicide is always for the losers Baby...
Moktadir Al Nahid says 534 days ago
Who the hell we r ? We r not the Lord of our Souls. Then, how can we think about it. It's depends on the point of view of the greatest losers. Simultaneously it should notice that the purpose of it, Is it Suicide or Sacrifice? But friend once u lose it u'll never get back it. But if u r alive it may be there is a chance waiting for u. Depression is a one kind bad job of our brain. Only brain can answer your question. Try to take control of it. I talked too much. Because there is a similarity between u & me. Some times it also happens wit me.
Shashanka Hegde says 534 days ago
I cant thinkany other bad ideas than killing yourself. And there will not be any state that u lost everything in the world. there are millions of people who are living the hundread times more diff situation. U shd face everything there will be always options other than suicide. if it is love then no one can tell anything because love is blind and the lovers will always be blind.
Vigneshjpm says 533 days ago
a spark of thinking make a person to commit suicide.when he or she come out of that he will reach a great goal in his life.so try to avoid suicide .
Marie says 531 days ago
Thing is if you think that you're going through a rough patch, look carefully around, there are hundreds who've got it worse than you do.
suicide is the coward's way out and more often than not, you always come out of it. Good news is, you do not come out empty handed, you come out stronger and much more strong willed.
look at it this way, if what you're going through is something you thought was powerful, news flash its not powerful enough to kill you. its just a phase and it too will pass.
suicide is the coward's way out and more often than not, you always come out of it. Good news is, you do not come out empty handed, you come out stronger and much more strong willed.
look at it this way, if what you're going through is something you thought was powerful, news flash its not powerful enough to kill you. its just a phase and it too will pass.
Mousumi says 531 days ago
No I don't think that suicide is the answer?Once you commit the suicide you cann't see what is happening in this world.
Priyanika says 530 days ago
why do u wanna commit suicide? Perhaps to be happy & peaceful!!!
But what is the guarantee u will be happy or rather worse after that?
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But what is the guarantee u will be happy or rather worse after that?
http://www.soniakathuria2010.blogspot.com/
Baldwin Ng says 530 days ago
You can't commit suicide! I may not have a religion per se. But there is a reason why religions, philosophy and what nots disapprove and discourage suicide. It's just a loser thing to do. Don't give up is what they are trying to say. Giving up not only shows lack of character but you are letting someone else win! The person who hurt you or make you feel uncomfortable to feel victorious.
SO... you can't commit suicide but I believe you can die, but not physically. Mentally. It's true that sometimes you gotta die to be reborn in a mental state. Let go of everything or as much as you can. Do something new, something totaly un-YOU. Once you've done so, see if you miss yourself. You know, trial and error. Try to find yourself by doing something out of your world. There's so much to do. So don't give up on yourself but give everything TO yourself.
Hope this makes sense.
Have a great day! This post of mine might give you a boost, I sincerely hope so. http://newguyontheblog.wordpress.com/2010/12/08/what-is-the-difference-between-you-the-blind/
SO... you can't commit suicide but I believe you can die, but not physically. Mentally. It's true that sometimes you gotta die to be reborn in a mental state. Let go of everything or as much as you can. Do something new, something totaly un-YOU. Once you've done so, see if you miss yourself. You know, trial and error. Try to find yourself by doing something out of your world. There's so much to do. So don't give up on yourself but give everything TO yourself.
Hope this makes sense.
Have a great day! This post of mine might give you a boost, I sincerely hope so. http://newguyontheblog.wordpress.com/2010/12/08/what-is-the-difference-between-you-the-blind/
ChillyT says 529 days ago
No but people look at it as a way out but to me that's just a weakness of giving in to your problems.
Feel free to debate. Thanks
Feel free to debate. Thanks
FreeWriter says 526 days ago
There is this saying that goes like, "This too shall pass," Believe that no matter what you go through, nothing lasts forever and your depression too shall pass.
EGeeKBee says 525 days ago
it may seem like it's the answer but if you open your eyes widely, there are a lot of answers waiting for you to pick them up.
SexyME says 516 days ago
Suicide is not the sloution to any steps taht you take when you have porblems. It doesn't amke any sense when you do it. You will only sound a loser.
In any case, committing suicide is a sin. Only God can take away your life, whenever ypu to think of it, it is already a sin. I suggest, you better think more than millions of time.
In any case, committing suicide is a sin. Only God can take away your life, whenever ypu to think of it, it is already a sin. I suggest, you better think more than millions of time.
Karen Lopez says 516 days ago
Committing suicide is absolutely not the answer to solve any concern you might have in this life, but that is the sign to STOP, LOOK, and LISTEN for you not to hit by a Tren kidding aside. What I mean is to EVALUATE YOUR LIFE. STOP to say a little prayer in your heart. LOOK for your priorities in life. The greatest love of all is to learn to love yourself not to kill yourself, after you STOP and LOOK then LISTEN to your heart. Life is a game of love and beauty only if we are sports in life. Hope you get what I mean for being SPORT in life.
Vishal Dharamdas says 361 days ago
Fighting is the only choice! Giving up is only for cowards. Suicide are for people who are afraid to live.
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Ricardo Roehe says 361 days ago
Suicide ever, is one of the most cowardly acts that human beings can do.
God does not accept this kind of cowardice and you do not come into the kingdom of God.
Fraternal hug from Brazil.
God does not accept this kind of cowardice and you do not come into the kingdom of God.
Fraternal hug from Brazil.
Healthit Up For YOU says 360 days ago
No it is not the answer................ There is help and a hope for the future for all problems.
CVA KARMA says 348 days ago
it is for one who is coward and afraid of results. do not dare to do suicide because there's always something more good and interesting in life.............
Sanchita C says 348 days ago
its one way and its the end - in a way its easier to die and we don't know for sure what happens after death. living is tougher - some people live in an almost death-life manner. perhaps try harder to find reasons for living and you will see the world is very big - there are many reasons to live. you just have to find your own. i believe we have only one life...
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Mickey says 348 days ago
We're all going to die at the end anyway, so there's no need to rush there... Life has lots of beautiful things and there's always hope so if anyone seriously considers suicide they should seek immediate help right away.
Jim Susie says 348 days ago
No, suicide is not the answer...Never. Why? because each day is a new day,new feelin about life. Today, I may feel sad or bad; however, the very next day, God steps in and turns things around for my good. Don't ever throw in the towe. Weall have faults, we all come short, we've all been hurt by love at some point in our lives. Weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning. Think of God's love...The Greatest Love Of All :)
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