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Love and Marriage. What difference?
A P Geofrey says 611 days ago
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I always tried to explain to my friends the difference from Love and marriage from my own point of view. I think love is a feeling and does not take into consideration any other element. If love is based on something then that is probably not true love. Now marriage on the contrary and contrary to what people always think already is based on love and many other material things such as physical presentation, property etc. So what do you think?
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Manjula says 529 days ago
marriage is a wonderful thing everyone should go through it u can easily convert u marriage meaningful if not by love, atleast by adjusting, sharing & feeling for each other & very mainly for family sake. Once u go through it u,ll realize it. of- course fate & destiny also take a roll in it. still it,s better to try & win
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Bruno Rodrigues says 529 days ago
Marriage is a contractual agreement. You sign a contract and agree to certain terms. Love and marriage are not mutually exclusive. There are many people who still believe in arranged marriages or "learning to love" someone. Love is neither contractual nor do you sign up for it. It's a feeling. When it happens, it happens whether you agreed to it or not.
YaGirlNextDoor says 515 days ago
Bruno you have summed it all up beautifully. Love happens, you can't control it, if the feeling is there it will take you on. Marriage on the other hand is something you mutually chose to do. It is committing yourself to another either through a religious or civil ceremony. But most of you already know that, or at least should.
A P Geofrey says 527 days ago
That is quite true what Bruno said. But i think he just touched buy an aspect of the subject not the totality.
Thiruselvam K says 527 days ago
LOVE begins MARRIAGE continues DIVORCE ends. In love there is no marriage. In marriage there is love. Love is test. Marriage is commitment. In marriage two are bound with an entire range of emotions given and shared by each other. That mix when it gets too sweet or salty, can hurt. The check and balance by each other must be good chemistry.
A P Geofrey says 527 days ago
So are you saying that love always comes first before marriage? Because at times I think some people get married and then learns to love each other.
Jyotsna says 527 days ago
True love is like ghosts, which everyone talks about but few have seen.
Marriage is a romantic story, in which the Hero dies in the first chapter. :)
Marriage is a romantic story, in which the Hero dies in the first chapter. :)
A P Geofrey says 524 days ago
hahahahah like a ghost en! ok. So tell me are you one of the few who have seen or one of the many that just talk about it?
A P Geofrey says 519 days ago
hahahahaha. We have chinese professors here how interesting. An excuse to make love enhhhhhhh..... yeah right!
Lovely says 518 days ago
If you are in love before marriage...ur love ends after marriage....That's what I have seen in most of the places.... But, there are few people who have proved this wrong.... I appreciate them and pray that everyone in this world gets enveloped with that kind of love.....
Lovely says 518 days ago
If you are honest and serious........Then..marriage involves signing on the stamp paper and love involves signing on the heart.....And you should decide which is better...Marriage without love in it...or love without marriage in it.......
A P Geofrey says 516 days ago
The Chinese prof. is Levent. And I like your idea though I don't agree to it totally.
Mirra says 515 days ago
love is sacrificing admiration of several other guys for facing the criticism of one idiot!!!! and marrigae is a short term happiness!
A P Geofrey says 503 days ago
haha a short term happiness? how short? What about people who have been married for 60 years and above are they not happy?
Nizee says 495 days ago
to love is to share life together, to built special plans just for two! to walk side by side then smile with pride! how can you smile and be proud if the love you felt for some1 is not supported by marriage! marriage is not just a paper or contract to be sign, it should be fulfilled for both parties IF you want your relationship to have a strong foundation! the logic here is all out the world there are individual cultures about marriage. but surely marriage is the root of a family! whether it starts with love or arrangement!
ANTONY says 491 days ago
LOVE IS GOOD.IT IS THE UNDERSTANDING TWO HEARTS.IN WORLDHISTORY EVERY PERSON TO FEEL THE LOVE.
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Maddencorner says 490 days ago
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears
Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears
A P Geofrey says 490 days ago
Wow!! what an analyses thanks for sharing such touching and unique views Maddenconer.
A P Geofrey says 489 days ago
Yeah that same old book. Trust me many people don't think it's much of a reference except christians
Marina DelVecchio says 485 days ago
The kind of love that begins a relationship is different after marriage. The first love is exciting and chemical. It brings you to the place of marriage and family. In marriage a new kind of love is fostered:one that fosters patience, respect, family, and loyalty. It may not be as passionate as the first one, but it endures if it is based on pure and unconditional love. It has to change as the people involved change and evolve.
Sarah Abigail Hadap says 478 days ago
:) it is really different when your in a marriage bcuz youre not free anymore to love others
Sylvia Lynn says 478 days ago
Marriage is something that is committed and honoedr in some peoples lives and love is a part of marriage but love really is something that sets off fire,passion,desire,etc Love is something that is a ship at sea no direction and no understanding to how dangerous it could be. Love is never ending
Sanjay says 477 days ago
I think love is sacrifice which is totally different from marriage which involves everthing.
Jyotsna says 477 days ago
Love is a feeling or an emotion...a deep or strong sense of affection whereas marriage is more of a ceremonial event to formalize a change in one's civil status from being single to being married.
marriage is more equated to commintments. Marriage is practically dependent on culture, and it is usually a union between a man and a woman.
marriage is more equated to commintments. Marriage is practically dependent on culture, and it is usually a union between a man and a woman.
Jyotsna says 477 days ago
sorry spelling mistake: it should be commitments instead of commintments :)
A P Geofrey says 471 days ago
Love blind and marriage and eye opener. Girl it seems as if you've got something on your mind.
Gemstone says 466 days ago
why do we always think of love as a girl-boy relationship? cant it be anything else mother-child love sis-sis love love between friends or any other relation? why always a girl boy-love
Estephanie says 437 days ago
on the contrary love is based on something... and the diff is that aside from grammar technicality.. marriage is to one person unless said so by any other elements.. Marriage is legal and bounded by law..
love is not bounded by law..
love is not bounded by law..
Jethfrenz says 203 days ago
Isn’t it that Love and Marriage are both simply giving an authority? When two people declare their love with each other, (whether it’s a relationship between same sex or opposite sex,) aren’t they giving authority to their partner to enjoy or make love with them. On one hand, when love is so passionate and resulted to marriage, we may add that the given authority became more secure but bounded to some limitations. On the other hand, some cultures do not accept pre-marital sex; then marriage contract is pre-requisite to authorize them to do things as a couple. Some people may say that my conviction is so narrow but what is the bottom-line of the question and what is the essence? Will someone be happy to love without sex and to marry without sex? When I say to a lady that I love her and she says she loves me too, isn’t it she is giving me an authority to her being? Then when someone says to a lady will you marry me and she says I do, isn’t also giving an authority?
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