Many a times, I struggle with my emotions, thinking how long I can avoid taking care of my past wounds, since how long I need to continue forgiving people and forgetting that they love playing around with my feelings, how long I will hide my tears, how long I will continue my struggle with life, people and time by staying positive and changing thoughts and minds.......But, still I won't give up!!!
And you should never give up!
Really sorry for people taking advantage of your emotions...but take them as life lessons and if anything it shows that you are a good person in the end with the way you treat others and the heart you have to still forgive them! :)
Stay strong, you are going to be okay! :D
Staying positive will be the hardest thing in life specially when everything around you is negative, but you are right to keep looking on the bright side and eventually when everything goes your way... you will have the biggest shine and smile of all ^_^
Furita
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Thank you Furita for understanding. Staying Strong and Hopeful is the only way:)
It's all about perspective. The way you see things could change how you feel about certain stuff. Mind you, it is difficult to go through challenges, but with a positive outlook and determination, it won't be so bad. Life's not a burden.
I always agree with your statement, 'life is not a burden' and I love my life, but sometimes dealing with certain situation may pull your spirits down. Constantly struggling with negative people may at times allow you to give up!!! You know that some people are doing wrong, but you cannot ignore or shout at that person, because people don't change. We can try and influence their perspective and thoughts. That is also difficult. With some people, almost impossible. Thank you for your reply.
Agree with Cheska ~ Just remember that every person has challenges in their life, although it might not seem that way. I've always believed though, the more you surround yourself with positive happy people, the more you feel happier :-) and also, when you think negative or feel sad, allow that for a little while but dont wallow in it. Force yourself to think of good things, the more you do this the easier it will be.
Thank you for those positive words. I definitely try and change my surroundings and thoughts into a positive image, but at times things and certain situations constantly fight back to pull you down dear. I completely agree with you, but staying positive sometimes means let it go, forget and stay happy, forgive, do not bother, a big deal, I understand etc. Quietly, constantly sometimes these words get tougher to handle. That's it!!! I am a positive person and always try seeing things positively.
Thanks much for your wonderful thoughts!!!
I agree with what everyone is saying. To be honest, when it all gets too much, I usually go for a walk somewhere - I take nothing with me, not even a phone - just myself. I just remember the world/nature around me is beautiful and means way more than the problems I face. If you have moments like these when you're just with yourself and the world, things seem so much easier to deal with when you walk back into the house.
If you can have quiet moments like that, no matter how short they are I think everything is easier to deal with. Stay strong :)
I think you got me Manpreet! I was under a similar situation, but thankfully I have learned to take control of such situations in my life now!!!
Thank you for your answer:)
I feel better!!!
I like this Talk.....Why u are talking like that......According to me ...
Don't care about what the others saying...we can only make our life perfect...
Don't ever try to ignore the past may be it will make us perfect if it is good or bad....
i always remember my past .....Music is one the great tool to remember past....It is a great feeling....and make me go on.......
Yeah Akhil! Not caring what others say is a good way, but sometimes too much of something turns you sad and depressed. But, thankfully I am learning to take control of such moments now. Hopefully I will master this art:(
Thanks much for your sweet and concerned reply:)
Just be aware that you are the only one like you in the world. Anyone who doesn't see how great you are is misguided. Put the past behind you. Look around for positive influences that you can say Hi to and smile at. You'll be amazed at how the world will reflect back to you and multiply your positive energy.
Thank you so much for those kind words!!! You truly made me feel better and encouraged me to stay more focused on my job and forget the unwanted stuff. Thanks!!!
