is it the most difficult question you face, because we are constantly changing,
what we are today we may not be that tomorrow,
what we like today may change in the next second....
our perspective of this world and us (as a part of this world) is constantly changing ...
so the answer to this question is always a lie..
BUT WHAT IF YOU DO NOT WANT TO LIE ???
well i see many people preparing for this question.. but answering this question without any preparation and without bluffing and without lifting lines from somewhere else...
try this for yourself and you'll find out how difficult a queation this is !!
about me !!!!!!!1
i've been trying to figure dat out 4 da past 20 years !!!!!!!!!!!!
it's gr8 if u r finding an answer..may be i am confused...but i see i do not fit in any personality traits .... i'm an extrovert,introvert and an ambivert it al depends on da circumstances...
i am an egoist sometimes and sometimes i have dis inferiroty complex ..and i cant help wondering wat happened to my self-confidence dat was vry intact a few moments ago..my moods r swaying vry fast...i dont know.. iam kind ,selfish..i am confused ..i've seen ppl answering dis question saying dat dey r confident,quick-wited,analytical,dat day r extrovert and make frnds easily..but is dat always true..wen som1 says he is kind or confident does dat mean dat he is like dat ALWAYS !!!!!!!!!
You'r selfish! No doubt! Otherwise you at least write in full form so we can read your thoughts easily!
Btw I think writing about self is easy as long as you don't try to fool others.
@MOONOMO .. HMMN I AM SELFISH AS SO IS EVRY1 ON DIS PLANET EARTH ..OR WELL DEY VRY FEW SELFLESS PPL AND I FOR ONE AM DEFINITELY NOT A PART OF DEM ....
"Btw I think writing about self is easy as long as you don't try to fool others." - HAV 2 AGREE..ATLEAST PARTIALLY ....BUT THE THING IS DAT YOU R CONSTANTLY CHANGING RIGHT .. SO HOW DO U DEFINE URSELF AS U R SOME "XXX" ..AND U LIKE SOME "YYY" .. WEN THE CASE IS DAT U LIKE IT ONLY AT DAT PARTICULAR INSTANT OR FOR DAT TEMPORARY PERIOD OF TIME....
Hey Pardha, don't take it seriously! I just tried to joke, didn't mean you!
If you take my profile for example, 'I love reading, venture...', once i loved to read books/magazine, i'd spent tons of hours for them. Now a days I hardly read a book but still I spent tons of hours to read blogs/article and various content on web. So it's still valid, I home in future i would even spent more time on reading may be both book and web together.
So far, even physically our blood, hair, skin cell changes every often but those bone hardly or never changes. I think same for your nature(the person), mind, it may change few colors but it hardly changed.
Till ones died, probably no need mark who you are on stone! Every time you have a changes, update your text. That's the way it is always kept true.
Thanks.
mene hamesa vo kiya h jo mere gardions ko smile de
that they didn t expect me & a student.
@moonomo
ya i do agree... its just dat wenever i sit down 2 write abt myself i end up getting terribly confused .... all this started wen der was mock interview in coll .. and i had 2 prepare 4 it .... it was den i started having serious problems with the question wch i previously thought was so easy 2 answer !!
so in dat perplexed state i started dis talk ..and aftr dat .. well i gues urs was da best reply i got .. so thanks
About myself? I was born, I live, and one day I will die. As long as we breathe we controll our own future but at the end- our bodies are dust but our energy lives on. How depressing.
well i truly wish such a straight forward and honest and a simple reply would be accepted for all practical purposes ....
but unfortunately .. u-know-what !!
Ok..for what reason?
Learn to read between the lines. That reveals a bit of our character in this site.
hmmn..... Ok.. "for what reason? " ..... there are quite a few .... but nyways i have problems in reading between the lines .... i am so confused dat i am unable 2 comprehend the literal meaning , thats directly implied .. so forget reading in between the lines !!
Haha..ok since you really sound serious with this matter...
I believe the CHARACTER we have inside us make us perfectly unique from each one. The character i am saying is that something that can other close people say "Well, PARDHA IS PARDHA"..that is so YOU..no One but you..Changes are permanent in this world, the air we breathe and the experiences every day. But only our REACTIONS changes..some instances make us have a new "attitude"..why?- coz as long as we are living in this world, we are capable of LEARNING HOW TO LIVE LIFE..but learning is not at all for CHANGING, it is for DEVELOPMENT..lessons to make us better individuals AND not to change our whole being:)
As long as you believe that YOU ARE WHAT YOU THINK YOU ARE,it is half of YOU, the other half is based on how you ARE TO OTHER PEOPLE..and that is not a lie
You totally got that from a self help book! Deep. Very Deep. I am inspired! Thank you! Halleluja!!!! LOL
don't know why .. but after feeling better .. much better after reading this !!!
thanks .. :)
Hahaha! Reality check?--Angel I don't read books, my nose bleeds when someone asks about authors..hehehe..
I think, i am repeating the same thoughts all over talks and my posts..It's what i believe, but, i don't promise myself i am perfectly practising it. hehe..
I am a little drunk when replied that long..hope that helps Pardha..sorry for the little annoyance in my 1st reply..but thanks for provoking me to be serious:)
don't know why .. but i am feeling .. much better after reading this !!!
thanks .. :)
U know what... sometimes in my life.. I tend to dream to be a doctor someday, till a day past my mind changes, and I wanted to be a lawyer... but it keeps chaging until one day I wanted to be Seaman. but as the day goes by my mind changes.. that today I wanted to be anengineer. But it does'nt mean ur lieng. it simply shows that u wanted to be someone better than u are yesterday. That what's God realy wants for us.. change and improve for the better... and don't be afraid to make decisions in every day life situation.. and u know what's the best answer to ur question..??? ask God. the most powerful thing in this woorld is to have a personal relationship with God. Don't look for yourself alone.. walk with him.. and u would realy find yourself happy.. Because God nothing has for as but only happiness and better furture. indeed, he knows u yesterday and tomorrow.. ask for his Guidance to take a great path in life. Have a nice day!
dude it's not what you want to be ..but what u really are !!! and when someone asks u "tell me about yourself" - how do you go about answering it ....
let me be more clear ..write about yourself on a paper ... and repeat it after a few months ..do u still find the answers matching ???
put HIm at the center of your life and He will be the compass of your destination. :)
the truth about it is that there is no atom lie in the truth the best thing is to be yoursf and say the right thing
well .. that was my personal opinion ..but anyways .. it's not about telling the truth but about knowing it !!
what if u don't know anything about yourself .. what if u r all confused !!!
i find answering the question tell me abt urself really dificult ..because i find it very difficult expresing myself !!
Thanks everyone for your valuable replies ....
But the problem if someone gives me a paper and asks me " write about yourself " .. i am in a real dilemna ... i am very confused .. i keep wondering ..what am i ..what kind of a guy am i ....WHAT ARE MY QUALITIES..WHAT ARE THE ADJECTIVES THAT BEST DESCRIBE ME !!
let me get one thing very clear here .....
" IT'S NOT ABOUT TELLING THE TRUTH BUT ABOUT KNOWING IT " .....
AND I SERIOUSLY DO NOT KNOW MUCH ABOUT MYSELF ... AND HOW DO I FIND IT OUT GUYS ??
hey Pardha, this topic furs reminded me of what happened in the previous days..some of the bloggers here had this "tagging", it is really interesting, we had fun reading each other's list..here's the link that will lead you to my post..
If you like you can give your response too, now, i "tag" you :)
here's the link:
http://beanizersinstincts.blogspot.com/2010/01/also-victim-25-random-things.html
I know what u mean pardha...as we go throuhg life,its impossible not to encounter change. 2 years ago I knew what i wanted from life,or so I thought. I was a focused girl ready to face the world. was into politics,always had to have the last say and I always put my education above everything else. I loved the colour black, reading,and having a quiet time. 2 years later I have turned into a completely different person. I luv the colour turquoise and pink,im always so bubbly,politics bores me,and i have no idea wat i wana do with my life!so im taing a year off to try and figure that part out...bt the thing is,im glad I've changed. I cudnt have it any way. Most of the time,when we constanly change like that,its a response to urself maturing.
