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to marry or not????

Juene says 825 days ago

If your daughter got pregnant at the tender age of 18 would you advise her to marry her BF?

Why?

If your answer is yes.. What would be the main reason?

to save your family's reputation? or for the sake of the child?

User Replies (15)

Artic says 824 days ago

It's upto any individuals decesion because "Shaadi Woh Laddo hai Jo Khay wo Pachtay" ,"Jo Na Khay Wo Bhi Pachtay"

Ambiguous ANGEL says 824 days ago

it depends.

but if it just for the sake of the child, definitely no.
they will all just suffer.

Sohan says 824 days ago

At 18, a gal is mature enough to take her own decisions.. Its important what she wants? Family's reputation & all other things comes afterward. What your heart says is something you should listen to....

Gurpreet says 824 days ago

probably a person who has a daughter of 18 year knows better ,
people at my age dont know what to do with ones own life ...
society is stupid enough ,life is short to forget but long enough to change ,a person once wrong could or could not be right next time ,
without knowing the total scene ,the boy and the girl ,and the circumstances i dont think any one can answer that correctly...

Abdur Rehman Umar says 823 days ago

why u always choose problematic topics?
just relax and make life happen

Juene says 823 days ago

That's what you call freedom of expression, Abdur. Why is it bothering you.?

Juene says 822 days ago

Girls, what if you are the pregnant 18 years old girl, would you marry your bf?

What if your the guy, would you marry your preggy gf?

And why?

Just wondering for your new opinions?

Jolly Princess says 821 days ago

Marriage is a sacred vow a lifetime commitment. You should not marry someone simply because you got her pregnant or I got pregnant. If I am the girl I would tell my boyfriend I am pregnant but I will not pressure him to marry me. You should marry if you are ready for the commitment.

Juene says 816 days ago

what if the society is pressuring the girl? you know, the oldies who are use to follow the society's norm?

Abdur Rehman Umar says 821 days ago

@ Juene
nothing is bothering me around.
I want that open those topics for discussion like poverty, education and entertainment.bcoz they are of mine interest
Just not compelling for it.
nice 2 c u commenting
Thanx for listening my comments

Juene says 816 days ago

If that is your interest you can open your own talk.. nobody is restricting you anyway...

If my talk aren't too compelling for you, don't comment. ignore it!

Thiruselvam K says 820 days ago

Almost always, SEX IS BY CHOICE and CONSENT. At 18, she is aware of consequences and would not say, got carried away. The decision then is, are they really in love and under conscious thought and reasoning, to decide if they are prepared to live together, and with parental support and blessings be groomed into responsible parents.

Juene says 816 days ago

what is she is not prepare for marraige? not even prepare for parenthood? But afraid to face the responsibility alone? And society's pressure is there.. what to do next??

Ravali says 820 days ago

i leave the decision to her but its her own responsibility to take care of that child and i wont support her in raising that child in money matters after all i had to be slight strict too!!!

Juene says 816 days ago

ohhhhhhhh..... your too strict!!!

What would you say?