Grindgirl
I was at La Senza the other day; looking to buy some non pregnancy panties; and I overheard a conversation. It was about how this girl "would totally F#*k Kevin". So I turned around to see who would utter these crass words(loudly) in public. I was SHOCKED to see three girls whom couldn't have been any older than 13yrs old; looking at butt floss; drinking their cappucinos and texting on the IPhones. In my utter amazement; I acutally realized that I was actually disgusted. When did tweens/teens become so oversexed? Do their parents KNOW that their little princesses talk "trash" and buy butt floss(presumably to seduce Kevin)? Then it dawned on me; they're oversexed because of all the trash tv shows that depict sex as totally acceptable; doesn't matter how young you are. The shows I'm refering to? Well; lets start with what's on tv; shall we. One Three Hill/Gossip Girl/90210/Vampire Diaries(all of these are FAR racier than anything that was on the tube in the 90s), just to name a few. Then there's the big screen; Twilight(Saga)/Jennifers Body, just to name two. NOW, don't get me started on the music videos for the teeny boppers out there! How can a 12/13/14 year old grasp the concept of concensual/casual sex when grown men/women still struggle with the complex issues that arise in this field?
Don't tell me that tweens/teens nowdays are "so much more mature" then we were at that age; 'cause we all know(deep down) that's crap. How can a tween/teen who can't read at their grade level; do a simple equation without a calculator; who doesn't know whom our prime minister is or who Jacques Cartier was OR write an essay without using spell check(use a dictionary people); possibly understand SEX.
There's no amount of "parental guidance" or "support" that will "prepare" a 12yr old kid to handle sex. So all you parents out their that have sat your kid down and given them the birds/bees talks along with a hand full of condoms or birth control; get your heads out of your a#*es. What you should be doing is buying your randy kids chastity belts; strapping them in and not giving them the key until their 18yrs and moving out of your house. This way you are GUARANTEED to not have any "oopsies" you're gonna be a grandpa/ma or "I have an STD" conversations with your little oversexed kiddies. Tell them that it's not NORMAL for Naomi on 90210 to attend a social function wearing nothing but a trench coat; in hopes of seducing Liam. While you're at it; inform them that it's not normal for ANY tween/teen to own Louis Vuiton/Prada or Gucci; because real parents don't have abnormal amounts of cash stashed away to spend on desginer names for their horny, disrespectful, unappreciative children.