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What do you prefer in your partner?
Viewpoint says 709 days ago
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Is it only physical aspect of one's personality or good nature that attracts the person of opposite sex. Would you like to be with a person who is ugly or not so good looking but quite loving and caring in nature?
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Thiruselvam K says 709 days ago
Hi viewpoint, looks do matter. How long does that last?
Obvious isn't it. The handsome guys and the beautiful women are the ones fighting in divorce courts for share of wealth and custody of children...blah..blah..blah.
Is the inside beautiful as well. How much tolerance and understanding can it hold. Is love overflowing. Again in society, the yardsticks of measurement vary from person to person. The couple can be the most loving as two, but in company one's inferiority complex can pill the other down as well. So no hard and fast rule. A blend of many factors make for the idealness of one to the other and vice versa, and yet in the social company of many people, both must be hand in hand to compensate each other's strength and weakness.
Oh my god! Am I submitting a thesis for doctorate in blog writing.
Obvious isn't it. The handsome guys and the beautiful women are the ones fighting in divorce courts for share of wealth and custody of children...blah..blah..blah.
Is the inside beautiful as well. How much tolerance and understanding can it hold. Is love overflowing. Again in society, the yardsticks of measurement vary from person to person. The couple can be the most loving as two, but in company one's inferiority complex can pill the other down as well. So no hard and fast rule. A blend of many factors make for the idealness of one to the other and vice versa, and yet in the social company of many people, both must be hand in hand to compensate each other's strength and weakness.
Oh my god! Am I submitting a thesis for doctorate in blog writing.
Ravali says 709 days ago
my point of you i want nothing but just two things from my partner those are love and trust that's all!!!
Healthit Up For YOU says 709 days ago
Looks may attract you to one... true love is what you find on the inside.
Positive Insight says 708 days ago
to quote Thiruselvam in one of his talk, "bulshit can take you to the top but it can not keep you there long" in the same light, beauty and looks can get you into a relationship or even marrage, but except there is love, care and mutual respect, such relationship or marrage will not stand the test of time.
Viewpoint says 708 days ago
But tell me one thing my dear friends that human nature is that human beings get bored of monotony and anything that looks apparently good attracts people. In a relationship, if your life partner is loving snd caring as well as good looking then it serves as extra cream on your piece of cake. Nobody is that much patient to deny that extra topping. I think looks are also important with inner qualities. Do you agree??????????
Nizee says 605 days ago
fact that if you look good you are special! but they see is just the outer side of you, what do you prefer? people who likes you because they noticed your beauty or people who likes you for seeing the inner side of you? looks really do count, you should be proud of it! but sometimes its hard to find some1 who will be true to you...
Nizee says 605 days ago
you must! hahaha just kidding... i mean it should be like that because if you love the person for real you should accept everything about her/him weather it is positive or negative traits.. there is no such ugly person if you believe that everyone is special!
Nizee says 605 days ago
yeah right it matters a lot. but you can only judge the person if he/she is special after seein the inner side of her.
Victor says 605 days ago
I think the ugly type that is loving in nature is good to be with.If we are talking about physical appearance we should consider the times when those appearances are no during old age.The best to know and think of is knowing if the person loves you.
Viewpoint says 605 days ago
Ok............. I agree that looks also matter. But if it is so then in old age mostly people don't look good then should we leave our partner in old age?
Aryan says 605 days ago
if vr in true lov den luks dsnt matter...bt initially 2 start a talk v ned an attractive personality.wat do u say???
Sadia Kayani says 598 days ago
Definitely,a person with ugly looks and kind n loving nature is far better than one who is attractive n handsome but got ugly thoughts and of all whats the point of being with some one who is Mr.World but doesn't love me.
I go for nature not looks,as looks will vanish away but good nature will never decay.
I go for nature not looks,as looks will vanish away but good nature will never decay.
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Viewpoint says 709 days ago