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what is the meaning of sexy???

Dizzy

why do most guys refer to women as sexy...y can't it be beautiful..i get so offended when a guy calls me sexy its seems like am a sex icon...is it really dat??? wats ur opinion guys??

50 Replies

Neel Baran ∙ 28 Oct, 09

"aphrodisiacal" - isn't it?
got from dic. :)

Dizzy ∙ 28 Oct, 09

huh i don't get dat???

Wytwitch ∙ 28 Oct, 09

it depends on the person, really..we don't know what's in the back of their mind when they say sexy to you. instead, take it as a compliment! if someone would say "hey sexy", just reply "i know, ty" but i would prefer beautiful instead of sexy too. :)

Dizzy ∙ 28 Oct, 09

yea my take too *wink*

Beanizer ∙ 30 Oct, 09

can carry herself with class :)

Dinethsilva ∙ 2 Nov, 09

check my blogs.................you will get some ideas about it

Chubbymommyme ∙ 2 Nov, 09

Sexy means feeling like on top of the world. Looking good and feeling just fantastic inside. That's where confidence comes from. You can't buy sexiness. It comes out if you really are sexy.

Wanna Be An Angel ∙ 11 Nov, 09

Hiya....

I liked the talk....n liked tht a girl askin it...:)

Well I jus wanna give an example

who a guy consider sexy...

A girl whose figure he is seeing n not the face...n its happen when a girl dresses in a outfit like tht.....

A guy find a girl sexy when he is lookin at her figure but not at face and not knowing her character.....

but a guy finds a girl beautiful...when a girl is dressed in a sweet outfit not exposing anythin...then a guy actually likes her...n try to know more abt her....

but when a guy founds a girl sexy then it means he lusts for her...n tht lusts end with obsession....

whereas when he says tht girl is beautiful then he start with likin n it ends with friendship or LOve..contd

Wanna Be An Angel ∙ 11 Nov, 09

it depends how a girl represents herself.....n how a guy reacts to it.....

To be honest today when it came to blame for some problems...we blame it on others....

but actually we dun consider ourself blame for it coz somewhere or the other each n everyone is equally responsible the person who committin it n the person who tolerating it....

as u say MISS I dun think everygirl thinks like tht...today girl want tht guy finds her sexy....they try hard for tht and it pays when a guy say it....

and a guy never think abt dat....coz he feels he can do anything as he is superior to women but forget tht he is in d world coz the reason is he live in the stomach of a women....:):)....contd

Wanna Be An Angel ∙ 11 Nov, 09

I dun know how can people use mother name when they say someting offendin n abusive....do we forget our reason for comin on this world....

today I feel
tht GUY FORCE TO GET RESPECT N WOMEN HAS A RESPECT.....:)

N THIS MADE ME FEEL PROUD....EVEN THOUGH I AM A GUY I WAS PROUD COZ WHEN I THINK ABT IT I REALISE THT IF THERE IS NO WOMEN HOW CAN I ALE TO COME TO THIS BEAUTIFUL WORLD.....

ATLEAST FOR THT REASON WE HAV TO RESPECT THE WOMEN.....:)....

I DUN KNOW I STICK TO THE TOPIC....N ONE MORE THING...MA ENGLISH IS LIL WEAK...SO HOPE U GET THT WHT I SAID...:D:D....N IF I GO WRONG SOMEWHERE THEN I AM SORRY FOR THT COZ I NEVER MEANT TO HURT ANYONE...:)

TAKE CARE
KEEP SMILING
HAV FUN N NJOYY D LIFE
ALLAH BLESS U...:)

Kim Realubit ∙ 17 Nov, 09

SEXY IN THE SPIRITUAL SENSE MEANS SOMEONE WHO IS IN COMPLETE ATTUNE WITH GOD'S WILL. IT ALSO ENTAILS LIVING A GODLY LIFE-IMBIBING CHRISTIAN VALUES AND TENETS. SEXY IN THE MATERIAL SENSE CONNOTES THE POUT OF ANGELINA JOLIE,THE ALLURE OF MEGAN FOX, THE COLOR OF RIHANNA, THE ENERGIZING APPEAL OF BRITNEY SPEARS. GOT IT?

cricketcrazy ∙ 17 Nov, 09

As simple as that looking at that u feel like doing sex

GHUN JHUCK ∙ 15 Dec, 09

what a crazy answer..hahaha

Dove Mornington ∙ 27 Dec, 09

Not every woman is sexy. I can't think for a man, yet we women know when another woman is sexy. There is something in her appeal, her physical and mental attitude that lures the desire of a man. If she is sexy, a man feels she is physically desireable in a sexual way. It is a compliment to be desired. Beautiful to me is when the man is looking into our soul or the physical beauty of our faces, our essence of self. I have been called both. Beautiful to me is that the man is seeing all of me. Sexy is when I have stirred his physical desire with my body and mind.
I love them both!

Angelina ∙ 3 Jan, 10

The only time I ever feel sexy is when I am listening to good music and imagine myself to be that girl...you know...the ultimate image of gorgeous? You will get to a point in your life where it doesn't matter what guys think because they are not in your skin. If you are comfortable with who you are and assert yourself at everything you do...then that is sexy.

Sexlessinthecity ∙ 9 Feb, 10

My Grandmother wasn't labeled as sexy and neither was my Mother. I think Cindy Crawford ruined it for all of us women in the 1992 Pepsi commercial!

Sachin Varde Borkar ∙ 24 Jan, 11

Ha Ha Ha! Girls Girls Girls & Girls will be girls...........Always BLAME IT ON RIO! HUH?

Emzy Memzy ∙ 9 Feb, 10

for me being sexy is not how beautiful you look. it's all about being confident of who you are and how you love yourself.

Sachin Varde Borkar ∙ 24 Jan, 11

Right said Emzy - You really have the confidence to face this BIG BAD WOLFY WORLD. Keep it up.......THREE CHEERS!

RantingBloggingChick ∙ 17 Feb, 10

sexy is just an opinion. I mean, I could thing guys with red hair are sexy while my neighbor likes... i dont know brown hair.
Frankly, societies defention of sexy seems to fall under "slutty prositute barbie with big boobs"
We did this one thing in humanties once, where we are more appealed to things that look fake than real people, because we can see real people everyday but the prostitute barbie only comes along so often...

Pankaj ∙ 18 Feb, 10

well in my view being sexy is not abt sex icon its about any thing which appeals to every one sumtimes boys are not able to articulate their feeling so thy say sexy cuz beautiful is just not what they want to say so they say sexy

Bruno Rodrigues ∙ 25 Mar, 10

This reminds me a girl I dated. She would tell me that she didn't like being referred to as my "girlfriend." She wanted me to refer to her as my "significant other." Here's the slang definition of sexy:
Slang Highly appealing or interesting; attractive: "The recruiting brochures are getting sexier" (Jack R. Wentworth).

If you get offended by this term, then just look for a guy that doesn't use it.

Moonomo ∙ 29 Mar, 10

You reminds me "Chris Brogan" he had a blog post: Want to know what I find really sexy?
http://bit.ly/4Cjfi9

Johann Kotze ∙ 25 Mar, 10

Sexy is ..how you feel about everything.

Hasi Wk ∙ 29 Mar, 10

Look it up :P(jk)

Jolly Princess ∙ 29 Mar, 10

I guess there is nothing wrong when someone calls you sexy. The adjective refers to both sexes. It really depends on the motive or the way of thinking of the person using the adjective. The word sex per se does not necessarily mean sexual premiscuity but may refer to genders. When someone calls you sexy, to me you have vibrant or attractive personality. Meaning you’re not a dull person.

Tracey ∙ 30 Mar, 10

When I feel good about myself, I feel sexy and beautiful, which makes other people see that in you. Don't take it offensively. It's a good thing :)

Johann Kotze ∙ 30 Mar, 10

go girl:)

Dybbuk ∙ 5 Apr, 10

i would dare to say sexy means confidence.

Sachin Varde Borkar ∙ 24 Jan, 11

What a confidence & positive state of mind. I LIKE IT. KEEP IT UP!

Whoknows ∙ 15 Jan, 11

Who knows what men think. I think it varies from one to the next. I have had such a mixture of names I have been called e.g my slut, my bitch, sexy, fuck me sexy and my personal favourite gorgeous. So it really depends what man you with.

SHAZIDA KHATUN ∙ 15 Jan, 11

hey man !! why you are behind "SEXY" !! Iit is meant root of every one's creation .

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Priyanika ∙ 20 Jan, 11

just be yourself, v r all born sexy

Sachin Varde Borkar ∙ 24 Jan, 11

ME TOO! [I MEAN WE ALL GUY OUT HERE TOO - Ha Ha Ha!] Take Care - I Liked your comment!

Sachin Varde Borkar ∙ 24 Jan, 11

Ha Ha Ha! We humans are really crooks right? "Sexy" word today has all the good as well as erotic meaning but they use it for refering a person as Gorgeous, Beautiful & possesing all required quality a person desires. CAN You answer me Why do girls call us HANDSOME? or DASHING? We are not giving any HAND[jobs] nor Do we DASH anyone RIGHT? ........Ha Ha Ha! So why do we go on the face value of the word? Why not try to understand in what contexts they are using these words? Just because the word "SEXY" Has the word "SEX" in it doesn't mean it refers to sex - Just as the word F E M A L E has M A N in it does not mean that.........You know what I mean it right?

Cissydette ∙ 24 Jan, 11

well, for me "sexiness" depends on how you carry yourself.. :)

Dhananjay Singh ∙ 24 Jan, 11

i don't find a reason for which u should feel offended.
you are beautiful and you may be sexy for some.
keep on enjoying the booty of beauty, you are master of.

Sachin Varde Borkar ∙ 24 Jan, 11

Ha Ha Ha! WOW! What an answer. Hat's off to you.

Smouldering ∙ 24 Jan, 11

Sexy is how you view yourself. To what degree you feel empowered by who you are sexually. How you show yourself to others. What degree you trust, love, and honor your body, mind and spirit. Sexy can be empowering and intoxicating!!

Dorothyl ∙ 14 Apr, 11

It most definitely depends on who is the sender of that message and/ or who the receiver is.
Being described as sexy for some is more of an intimate comment and should only be used when in a relationship. For others it is a compliment taken with appreciation as it makes them feel good.

Everyone is different and responds differently to words and thoughts of others.
That my dear is what makes us all unique and sexy in our own eyes~

Legallymad ∙ 14 Apr, 11

its a word to turn you on and di think sexy is sexy bering a guy ,sexy turn me on like light switch(smile)any way i lov ethe word sexy sexy is what sexy does

Mouhcine ∙ 19 Apr, 11

hi everyone , in my opinion all people see this sexy with defferent meaning "womens and guys" not because everyone has a defferent idea about beautifuly ,for me "sexy" means that girl move my feelings and look special to me , not always the beautifuly in the body but the real beauty inside this person in his spirit, and the must guys say sexy because he want "sex" .....but not all .
thank you for the topic.

Prad B ∙ 20 Apr, 11

hmmm, smthng that turns u ON

Homer ∙ 20 Apr, 11

Something attractive

Sugarfree ∙ 20 Apr, 11

I agree.I don't like that word either, and i hate being called "hot" too...

Tori Seay ∙ 21 Apr, 11

sexy is whatever your prefrence conciders it to be

Pundit Commentator ∙ 22 Apr, 11

Sexy is a dangerous compliment.

Mayank Saini ∙ 23 Apr, 11

appealing

Lheeo ∙ 23 Apr, 11

it is just when other say somthing you can also find out how your mind works.. take it easy and accept some comment to the other people because they just appreciate the way you looks. there's no problem about that... besides it shows what you've Got. (--,)

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