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What should i do?? updated!!

Princess Blog on Love, Happy, Rude, Worried, Long Distance, Beautiful

I love my boyfriend a lot. he loves me too... alot! He came in my life and everything changed.. :) everything lovely, beautiful and happy! We always shared a long distance relation but we both trust each other and somebody else has never been a problem in between us. But since few months, i've seen him changing in many ways... the way he reacts.. the way he behaves. He becomes so rude at times and dont even realise. He doesnt even listen to me wen i want to explain and many times even i dont get proper words to explain myself. :(
What should I do? I don't wanna loose him, he's my world., and i know he loves me., but m really worried about my future. The way he behaves is sometime very suffocating. I miss Dat old Person in him.

17 Replies

Rumpunch Drunk ∙ 20 weeks ago

You both need to talk! Discuss your concerns and give him time to respond.

Princess Blog ∙ 20 weeks ago

Things sorted... :) :)

Teddy ∙ 20 weeks ago

Nothing stays the same so you can bet that after this incident is over, another will pop up sometime. Listen to RUMPUNCH DRUNK. Very good advice.

Princess Blog ∙ 20 weeks ago

Had a tok wid him. Was drunk, n I was angry dat he did not respond to my messages, and wasn't talkin to him properly. While saying Gudnyt, he suddenly got emotional saying, ' I love u'.... And all my anger went away!! After a ling Tym dis situation came.
I know we r gonna dur agn, get angry agn on some other issue, but until d love doesn't change, everything is fine. :)

Rumpunch Drunk ∙ 20 weeks ago

Ok. But did you discuss when sober the issues you started this post with?
Not my business, but if there was any underlying issue, it was not dealt with due to being drunk and saying I love you. ..... Just a wild thought.

Princess Blog ∙ 20 weeks ago

i waited for him to wish me at 12 for new year... he didn't! :(
I wished him.. got a bit angry... and in return he cudn't understand d reason behind it.. he said he's tired and wanna sleep... still i msgd him after disconnecting the call... He said he doesn.t wanna tok about it.., n d reason he gave was- y were u angry?
Don't i deserve to b angry? or should i expect ne simple thing!
D reason behind not wishing me was, he was busy with his frnz!! he humself said we'll wish each other at correct tym... but he didn't do! :(
I dnt know wat to do or wat to say....

Hotei ∙ 19 weeks ago

I been there and I done that.....

.....here I am now writing our story...

Princess Blog ∙ 19 weeks ago

Hotie...
I exactly couldn't get you. What do you suggest here??

Priya Pal ∙ 19 weeks ago

Change is the ultimate truth.... In the world nothing is instant. Though we know the truth, we get pain by seeing the change of our dear ones. Why good moments are not for long time..... why it comes n go so early without realising that what i m getting..

Princess Blog ∙ 19 weeks ago

I decided not to say anything to him because, its my choice to he with him.. and therefore I should accept him d way he is...

Princess Blog ∙ 19 weeks ago

I decided not to say anything to him because, its my choice to be with him.. and therefore I should accept him d way he is...

Hotei ∙ 19 weeks ago

Talk, there is no other way but talk, that is how things are solve if both of you close yourselves wont be of any help ...

make the first step...

Princess Blog ∙ 19 weeks ago

Thanx Hotie for ur suggestion.
By the way he's never closed!! hahahaa...:)
M always der to listen him. and i'll be!

Princess Blog ∙ 18 weeks ago

I think long distance relation is getting tough. I'm really worried. Today after a fight(the only talk we had, and that too was ruined) he said don't message me back once the call is disconnected. Say whatever you want on phone. But the 2 good facts about this is:
1. He DOES not listen at all. Soi how do I say it on phone??
2. I'm really not able to speak up.
All my thoughts can be known by writing. I tried many times, but it doesn't happen! I can speak up and fight.

Hjamnette ∙ 18 weeks ago

if things are not working well even though you've tried talking to him and have tried EVERYTHING to sort things out, in my opinion, you need to free yourself from the situation.if one of your parents says he's not good for you, it 100% he's not...

Princess Blog ∙ 18 weeks ago

My dad doesn't know about him. You know how it is here in India, such love relations are not so open to b discussed with parents. But my mom knows about him, and she likes him.
And it is not that easy to give up either. We are together since 8 years. We both made mistakes and we both forgave each other. But things are totally different now. I don't know what to do.

Teddy ∙ 18 weeks ago

I do not know how the customs of India are but I left you a comment on private mail. hope it helps.

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